Mental Wellness

  • How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To

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    So, we’ve covered lazy girl self-care and how to squeeze in 5-minute self-care hacks when you’re short on time. But what if you want a self-care routine—something that actually makes you feel good without turning into a full-time job? Because let’s be honest, most “self-care routines” online are wildly unrealistic.

    If you’ve ever tried to follow a self-care routine that looked something like:

    • Wake up at 5 AM (nope)
    • 20-step skincare routine (absolutely not)
    • Journaling, yoga, green juice, meditation (who has time for all that?)
    • Vision board photos session followed by breathwork (why is self-care starting to feel like a full-time job?)

    …then you already know the problem isn’t self-care—it’s the pressure to do too much.

    So, let’s ditch the all-or-nothing mindset and build a self-care routine that works for your actual life. One that you can stick to, even on the busiest days.


    1. Start with the Bare Minimum (Because That’s All You Actually Need)

    Forget the idea that self-care has to be some grand, time-consuming ritual. If your self-care lifestyle currently consists of drinking coffee and hoping for the best, let’s build from there.

    Here’s what a basic self-care routine actually needs:

    • Hydration – Because water is life.
    • Sleep – You function better when you’re not running on fumes.
    • Movement – Not the gym, unless you love it. A 5-minute stretch counts.
    • Skincare Staples – Cleanser, moisturiser, SPF. Everything else is optional.
    • One tiny habit that makes you happy – A quick dopamine-boosting win.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Start small. Trying to overhaul your whole routine overnight? Disaster waiting to happen.


    2. Use Habit Stacking for Effortless Self-Care

    If you struggle with self-care consistency, you’re not lazy—you just need a system. That’s where habit stacking comes in. Something I picked up from Atomic Habits by James Clear (check it out here!)

    How it works:

    • Attach a new habit to something you already do so you don’t forget.
    • Make it stupidly easy so there’s no excuse.

    Here are some self-care habit stacking ideas:

    • While making coffee → Drink a glass of water.
    • Before brushing your teeth → Do a 30-second stretch.
    • Before checking your phone in the morning → Take three deep breaths.
    • While watching TV → Use a hydrating face mask or do a mini stretch.

    Lazy Girl Tip: The less you have to think about self-care, the easier it is to stick to.


    3. Make Self-Care Fit Your Life (Not the Other Way Around)

    Some people love journaling, long walks, and Pinterest-worthy Sunday reset routines. If that’s not your vibe, that’s fine.

    Your self-care routine should match your personality, schedule, and energy levels.

    Need ideas? Try these:

    • For busy mums: A 5-minute shower reset while the baby naps.
    • For night owls: Swap the 5 AM routine for a relaxing evening routine instead.
    • For productivity queens: Block out self-care time like a meeting (yes, literally schedule it).
    • For lazy girl energy: Multitask self-care—stretch while scrolling, journal in your Notes app, or turn skincare into a mini self-care day.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Your self-care should be as effortless as possible. If it feels like a chore, you’re doing it wrong.


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    4. The Secret to Sticking to a Self-Care Routine: Make It Feel Good

    Most people quit routines because they’re boring or too much effort. The fix? Make it feel rewarding from the start.

    Here’s how:

    • Dopamine first. Do something instantly rewarding before harder tasks.
    • Romanticise it. Light a candle, use a cute water bottle, play chill music—whatever makes it feel extra.
    • Make it tiny. A 30-second self-care habit is easier to keep than a 30-minute one.

    Lazy Girl Tip: The more enjoyable self-care feels, the more likely you are to stick with it.

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    5. Stop Trying to Do Everything Every Day

    You do not need to do every self-care habit every single day—that’s how you burn out. Instead, rotate them.

    Try this:

    • Daily: The bare minimum habits (hydration, movement, skincare, sleep).
    • Weekly: One bigger self-care activity (a bath, a solo coffee date, a Sunday rest day).
    • Monthly: A full reset—declutter, refresh your self-care vision board, plan a maintenance day.

    Lazy Girl Tip: You don’t have to do everything—just enough to feel good.


    6. Create a “Backup” Self-Care Routine for Low-Energy Days

    Not every day is a high-energy, thriving girl-boss kind of day. Sometimes, you’re sick, burnt out, on your period, or just over it. That’s where your backup self-care routine comes in.

    On days when doing the bare minimum feels like too much, try this:

    • Drink any liquid (yes, coffee counts).
    • Take one deep breath before doomscrolling.
    • Lay in bed and do a 5-minute meditation (aka close your eyes and pretend to meditate).
    • Use a face mist or lip balm—hydration is hydration.
    • Get out of your PJ’s, put on comfy clothes and let that be enough.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Self-care doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to happen.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.


    Final Thoughts: Your Self-Care Routine, Your Rules

    You don’t need a 20-step self-care routine to take care of yourself. Just a few simple habits that fit into your life.

    Here’s what to do next:

    • Pick one self-care habit to try today.
    • Habit stack it onto something you already do.
    • Let go of the guilt—self-care is meant to help, not stress you out.

    Next up: How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours—because self-care should feel good, not like homework.


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  • The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women

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    In case you missed it, last time we covered lazy girl self-care—the kind that doesn’t involve a full self-care day or an elaborate self-care routine that takes hours. Because let’s be real, most of us are too busy, too tired, or just can’t be bothered to turn self-care into a full-time job.

    But what if I told you that you can feel better in just five minutes?

    No, really.

    This isn’t one of those “just wake up at 5 AM and journal for an hour” type of situations. These are quick, no-effort, dopamine-boosting, energy-lifting self-care hacks that fit into your life without requiring extra brainpower.

    Perfect if you’re a stay-at-home mom, a busy student or just someone who barely has time to breathe.

    So, if you’ve ever thought “I don’t have time for self-care”—this is for you.


    1. Do Absolutely Nothing for 5 Minutes

    Yes, this is real advice. Sometimes, the best self-care is just stopping for a second. No phone, no emails, no thinking about your endless to-do list. Just sit, breathe, and exist.

    Lazy Girl Tip: If your brain won’t shut up, try box breathing—inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4. It forces you to slow down and instantly lowers stress.

    Incorporating short mindfulness practices into your daily routine can significantly enhance your mental health. Even brief sessions can reduce stress, improve focus, and boost overall well-being. For more insights, check out this article.


    2. Hydrate (With a Fun Drink, Obviously)

    You already know that hydration = instant glow-up, but plain water can feel a bit… meh.

    Make it fun with flavoured water, herbal tea, or a classic: an iced matcha or collagen drink for a little extra self-care flex.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Get a cute water bottle with a straw—because somehow, drinking from a straw makes you weirdly more likely to actually hydrate.


    3. Quick Dopamine Hits for Instant Positive Energy

    Feeling meh? Hit your dopamine menu (or make one if you haven’t already—here’s how: Create Your Own Dopamine Menu).

    Need ideas? Here are instant mood-boosters:

    • Put on your favourite song and dance like no one’s watching.
    • Change into clean pyjamas for peak luxury vibes.
    • Scroll vision board photos
    • Blast a Friday night hype song, even if it’s Tuesday.
    • Sip on an aesthetic iced coffee and pretend you have your life together.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Self-care isn’t deep—sometimes, it’s just doing tiny things that make you smile.

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    4. The Ultimate 5-Minute Skin Refresh

    If you don’t have time for a full self-care routine, this is basic but effective:

    1. Cleanse – Because washing your face actually helps.
    2. Moisturise – Your skin needs it. Just trust me.
    3. SPF – Even if you’re inside. Even if it’s cloudy. Just do it.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Grab a tinted SPF moisturiser and kill two birds with one stone—hydration, sun protection, and a subtle glow-up in one step.


    5. Stretch Like a Cat (Seriously, It Works)

    Sitting all day? Feeling stiff? A 5-minute stretch can change your entire mood.

    • Neck rolls for tension relief.
    • Arm stretches to open up tight shoulders.
    • Leg stretch (or just point and flex your toes if you’re feeling extra lazy).

    Lazy Girl Tip: Do this while watching TV for an effortless health win.


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    6. The “I Don’t Have Time for Exercise” Workout

    No time? No problem. Try this zero-equipment, 5-minute movement boost:

    • March in place (1 min)
    • Wall sit (1 min)
    • Seated toe taps (1 min)
    • Standing stretch (1 min)
    • Deep breaths (1 min)

    Lazy Girl Tip: Strap on Bala Bangles for a sneaky resistance boost.


    7. Create a Quick Self-Care Vision Board

    Open Pinterest, Notes app, or an actual notebook and list things that make you feel good. Could be big goals or tiny things like “hot showers” or “scented candles.”

    Lazy Girl Tip: Save a Sunday reset inspo board with self-care ideas so you don’t have to think about it next time.


    8. The 5-Minute Shower Reset

    Some days, self-care is just taking a hot shower and pretending you’re in a spa.

    For an instant Korean shower routine glow-up, try:

    • Body scrub for baby-soft skin.
    • Hair mask for a little extra self-care flex.
    • Cold water blast at the end for a mood and circulation boost.

    Lazy Girl Tip: A luxury body scrub turns your basic shower into a full self-care lifestyle moment.

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    9. Write Down One Win from Today

    Doesn’t matter how small—just one thing you did right today.

    Even if it’s “I drank water” or “I got out of bed even though I didn’t want to”.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Keep a self-care bullet journal with tiny wins. It builds self-confidence and positive energy over time.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.


    Final Thoughts: Self-Care Hacks in 5 Minutes Flat

    You don’t need hours of free time or a full self-improvement plan to take care of yourself. Just 5 minutes here and there can change your mood, boost your energy, and make life feel a little easier.

    Here’s what to do next:

    • Pick one of the quick self-care hacks and try it today.
    • Save this self-care list for when you need a boost.
    • Let go of the guilt—5 minutes is enough.

    Next up: How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To—because self-care only works if it fits into your life!


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  • 7 Lazy Girl Self-Care Hacks: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort

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    Look, we all know self-care is important, but who actually has the time (or the energy) to spend hours on elaborate skincare routines, morning meditations, or journaling under the full moon while sipping matcha?

    Not me. And I’m guessing, not you either.

    Good news: self-care doesn’t have to be a full-time job. It doesn’t have to be fancy, expensive, or involve making a 45-minute trip to a yoga studio where everyone drinks green juice and pretends to love kale.

    It just has to be something that makes you feel a bit more human—and it needs to fit into your life without sucking up all your time and motivation.

    So, let’s talk about lazy girl self-care—the kind that actually works without requiring Olympic levels of effort. This is your boss motivation list to get yourself back on track, even if you’re a busy mom, a student, or just completely over everything.


    1. Drop the All-or-Nothing Mindset

    First things first: self-care isn’t an all-or-nothing game. You don’t need to have a perfect 10-step basic skin care routine or dedicate two hours a day to journaling your feelings.

    Some days, self-care is a full-blown DIY home spa night with face masks, fluffy dressing gowns, and candles that smell like a Scandinavian forest.

    Other days, it’s remembering to drink water before coffee so you don’t feel like a dehydrated raisin.

    Both count.

    If you need a little boost, make a self-care vision board with some vision board photos that inspire a healthy lifestyle—whether that’s a spa day, a stack of good books, or just a picture of someone drinking water like they actually enjoy it.

    Lazy Girl Rule #1: Doing something is always better than doing nothing.


    2. Hydration, But Make It Fun

    Water is boring. There, I said it.

    But dehydration makes you feel like a zombie, and it’s the easiest fix on this list.

    Here’s how to actually drink more water without forcing yourself:

    • Get a fancy water bottle. Weirdly motivating.
    • Add fruit or a splash of juice.
    • Set a phone reminder that says something dramatic like, “Drink water or perish.”

    And if you want to feel extra aesthetic, try making your own DIY self-care recipes for infused water. Hydration, but make it girly.

    Lazy Girl Rule #2: If you wouldn’t forget your morning coffee, don’t forget your water.

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    3. Sleep: The Most Underrated Form of Self-Care

    I know, I know. You’ll go to bed earlier… right after this one last scroll through TikTok and “how to get my life together” reels.

    But here’s the thing—sleep is self-care in its easiest form. You literally have to do nothing, and yet, it improves your mood, energy, skin, and metabolism without you lifting a finger.

    So, let’s fix your sleep hygiene the lazy way:

    • Dark room, no distractions. You don’t need blue light blasting into your retinas at midnight.
    • Cosy evening ritual. A hot drink, a book, or some comfort TV (Gilmore Girls, anyone?).
    • Ditch the guilt. Early bedtime equals elite-level self-care.

    If you struggle with sleep, a self-care routine before bed can make all the difference. Keep it basic—shower, skincare, no screens. Done.

    Lazy Girl Rule #3: Prioritise sleep like it’s your full-time job.


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    4. Do the Bare Minimum for Your Skin (and Feel Amazing Anyway)

    If your skincare routine currently consists of occasionally washing your face when you remember, congratulations, you’re already halfway there.

    You don’t need 17 serums or a bathroom shelf that looks like a science lab. Stick to the three essentials, and you’re golden:

    • Cleanser – Because washing your face with just water doesn’t count. Find one that suits your skin type and actually use it.
    • Moisturiser – Keeps your skin happy and hydrated. Bonus points if it makes you feel like a dewy goddess.
    • SPF – Non-negotiable. Protect your skin like it’s your full-time job. Get a moisturiser with SPF to combine two steps into one, or grab a tinted one for an easy summer glow. I love this one by CeraVe!

    Everything else—toners, serums, essences, and face mists—is optional. If you love them, great. If they overwhelm you, skip them.

    Basic doesn’t mean bad—it means efficient.

    Lazy Girl Rule #4: Keep it stupidly simple.


    5. Move Your Body (Without Calling It a Workout)

    Exercise is great. It boosts your mood, helps with stress, and gives you those smug I’ve got my life together vibes.

    But forcing yourself into hardcore workouts when you can barely be bothered to put socks on?

    Not happening.

    Let’s make movement fun and effortless:

    • Walk and talk. Ring your girlfriends, have a gossip, and rack up your steps.
    • Dance around the kitchen. Two songs equals five minutes of cardio. Sorted.
    • Lazy girl gym alternative. Stretch in bed, squat while brushing your teeth, do a couple of lunges while waiting for the kettle to boil.

    If you’re postpartum or having a sick day, gentle stretching can work wonders for feeling refreshed.

    Lazy Girl Rule #5: If it feels like a chore, you’re doing it wrong.


    6. Dopamine Boosts That Take Less Than a Minute

    Some days, self-care is just doing something tiny that makes your brain happy.

    Here are instant mood-boosters for when you feel meh:

    • Listen to an upbeat song you love.
    • Eat a piece of dark chocolate.
    • Step outside for fresh air and sunlight.
    • Watch a funny video or meme.
    • Try a new scent (essential oils, perfume, coffee beans).
    • Write down three things you’re grateful for.
    • Text a friend something kind or funny.
    • Do a quick 5-minute tidy-up.

    For an extra touch, add a self-care bullet journal to track these moments—nothing fancy, just a quick list of what makes you feel good.

    Want an easy way to boost your mood on demand? A dopamine menu is your personalised cheat sheet for instant feel-good moments. From quick wins to cosy self-care, it’s self-care without the overthinking. Learn how to create yours!

    Lazy Girl Rule #6: Self-care doesn’t have to be deep. Sometimes, it’s just doing little things that make you smile.


    7. Treat Yourself Like You Would Your Best Friend

    You wouldn’t let your best friend run on three hours of sleep, eat crisps for dinner, and speak to herself like a trash goblin, so stop doing it to yourself.

    Talk to yourself like someone you love. Be nice to yourself. Give yourself permission to rest without guilt.

    Lazy Girl Rule #7: If you wouldn’t say it to your friend, don’t say it to yourself.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.


    Final Thoughts: Self-Care Shouldn’t Feel Like a Chore

    You don’t need an elaborate self-care lifestyle. You just need small, feel-good habits that fit effortlessly into your life.

    • Hydrate, but make it fun.
    • Sleep like it’s your job.
    • Move in ways that don’t feel like punishment.
    • Take dopamine hits where you can.
    • Be nice to yourself. Seriously.

    Self-care isn’t about being perfect. It’s about doing what you can, with what you have, without making life harder than it needs to be.

    And if you needed permission to embrace lazy girl self-care—you’ve got it. Now go drink some water and put on a face mask.

    You deserve it.

    Next up: The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women—because self-care doesn’t have to take hours to make a difference!


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  • Can Pilates Help You Lose Weight? Here’s What You Need to Know

    Can Pilates Help You Lose Weight

    We’ve explored how Pilates transforms your mind and body in the last post (check it out here, if you haven’t already)—but let’s tackle the big question on everyone’s lips: Can Pilates help you lose weight?

    Whether you’re eyeing a long-term weight loss journey or just wondering if it’s worth swapping your current workout for a Pilates workout routine, the answer isn’t as straightforward as you might think.

    So, if you’re here because:

    • You want a fat-burning workout that won’t leave you gasping for air
    • You’d rather exercise at home than battle the gym bros for space
    • You want a sustainable plan that doesn’t involve punishing yourself
    • You’re sick of your arms and legs feeling like soggy noodles

    Then, my friend, Pilates is about to become your new best friend.


    How Pilates Supports Fat Loss

    Look, Pilates isn’t the high-impact sweat-fest that HIIT is, but that doesn’t mean it won’t help you burn fat, build strength, and sculpt your body.

    In fact, it’s one of the best ways to tone up without wrecking your joints.

    1. Muscle = More Calories Burned

    Pilates builds lean muscle, especially in your arms, legs, and core. And what does more muscle mean? A faster metabolism.

    Even when you’re binge-watching Bake Off, your body will be burning more calories at rest—which is basically the dream, right?

    2. Fat-Burning Without the Impact

    You don’t need to jump around like a lunatic to burn fat. Pilates gets deep into those muscles, making them work harder for longer, which boosts fat loss over time.

    3. Stress Less, Burn More

    Anxiety and stress send cortisol levels soaring, and cortisol = stubborn belly fat. Pilates helps calm your nervous system, meaning less stress, better sleep, and a happier metabolism.

    💡 Pro Tip: Want even more fat-burning power? Add in a daily walk—Pilates and walking go together like tea and biscuits.

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    Why Nutrition is the Real MVP of Weight Loss

    I hate to break it to you, but even the best Pilates plan won’t out-train a diet of takeaways and biscuits.

    Pilates can sculpt your arms and legs to perfection, but if you’re smashing six packets of crisps a day, it’s not gonna work miracles.

    1. Weight Loss is 80% Food, 20% Exercise

    You could be doing wall Pilates every day, but if you’re eating more calories then you’re burning, the weight won’t shift.

    2. Balanced Eating = Better Energy

    Fill your plate with:

    • Lean proteins (chicken, tofu, fish) to keep you full
    • Healthy fats (avocado, nuts, olive oil) for hormone balance
    • Complex carbs (quinoa, sweet potatoes, brown rice) for sustained energy
    • Loads of veggies (because, obviously)

    3. Hydration is Key

    Drink your water! Dehydration mimics hunger, so if you’re constantly feeling snacky, you might just be thirsty.


    The Sneaky Ways Pilates Helps You Lose Weight (Without You Noticing)

    1. It’s Easy to Stick With

    Because it’s low-impact and actually fun, Pilates doesn’t feel like punishment. That means you’re more likely to keep doing it, which is half the battle when it comes to weight loss.

    2. It Builds Confidence

    Ever nailed a wall Pilates move that you never thought you could do? That buzz carries over into every part of your life.

    Suddenly, you feel stronger, more capable, and more in control—which means you’re more likely to stay active and make healthier choices.

    3. It Gets You Moving More

    Pilates doesn’t stop when the workout ends. It improves posture, mobility, and strength, which means you’re more active throughout the day—without even thinking about it.


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    Types of Pilates for Fat Loss

    1. Mat Pilates

    Brilliant for home workouts, focusing on core strength, flexibility, and toning. Perfect if you want a no-fuss, effective plan.

    2. Reformer Pilates

    If you’ve got access to a reformer machine, this takes things up a notch. It’s great for sculpting legs, arms, and core while burning more calories.

    3. Wall Pilates

    One of the best options for people who don’t have much space at home. Uses body weight and the wall for resistance—absolute game-changer.

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    Fat-Burning Pilates Routine (30 Minutes)

    If you’re ready to fire up your metabolism and tone your arms, legs, and core, try this 30-minute Pilates routine designed for maximum fat burning. No fancy equipment needed—just a mat, a wall, and your bodyweight!

    Warm-Up (5 Minutes)

    • Standing Roll-Downs (8 reps) – Loosens up the spine and improves flexibility.
    • Cat-Cow Stretch (8 reps) – Warms up the back and preps the core.
    • Side-to-Side Twists (10 reps) – Activates the obliques and improves mobility.

    Main Workout (20 Minutes)

    Core & Fat-Burning Boost

    • The Hundred (1 minute) – Classic core move to fire up the abs and boost circulation.
    • Wall Pilates Leg Lifts (10 reps per leg) – Strengthens the lower body and tones the legs.
    • Plank to Knee Tucks (12 reps) – Works the arms, core, and legs while keeping the heart rate up.

    Arms & Legs Sculpting

    • Pilates Push-Ups (10 reps) – Strengthens the arms and chest without bulking up.
    • Wall Squat Hold (30 seconds) – A killer move for the legs and glutes.
    • Side-Lying Leg Circles (10 reps per leg) – Tightens and tones the thighs and glutes.

    Fat-Burning Flow

    • Bridge Lifts (15 reps) – Engages the glutes and core for a full lower-body burn.
    • Roll-Up to Standing (8 reps) – Combines strength and flexibility for full-body engagement.
    • Bicycle Crunches (20 reps) – A dynamic move to shred the abs and burn calories.

    Cool Down (5 Minutes)

    • Seated Forward Fold (30 seconds) – Stretches out the hamstrings and back.
    • Child’s Pose (30 seconds) – Relaxes the spine and hips.
    • Deep Breathing (1 minute) – Helps lower cortisol levels and promote mental health benefits.

    So, Can Pilates Help You Lose Weight?

    Here’s the real talk: Pilates won’t torch fat like a HIIT class, but it will help you build strength, boost your metabolism, and feel amazing in your own skin.

    If you:

    • Eat well and stay consistent
    • Move daily
    • Reduce stress (bye-bye, cortisol spikes)
    • Stick with Pilates long enough to see changes

    Then yes, Pilates can absolutely help you lose weight—and keep it off.

    💡 Final Pro Tip: Make Pilates a regular part of your routine, and you’ll see results that last. No crash diets. No fads. Just a strong, healthy, confident you.

    Now, go roll out your Pilates mat, grab a water bottle, and get to it. You’ve got this.


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  • 16 Mental Health Benefits of Pilates (That’ll Have You Rolling Out Your Mat ASAP)

    In the last post, we covered how Pilates improves your core strength (check it out here, if you haven’t already!). But did you know that it’s also an absolute game-changer for your mental health?

    Yep, Pilates isn’t just about toning up—it’s about clearing your mind, banishing anxiety, and helping you feel calm, confident, and in control.

    So if you’re feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or just need a solid mood boost, here’s why Pilates needs to be part of your life ASAP.


    1. Smashes Anxiety Like a Boss

    Pilates is the ultimate stress-buster. When life feels chaotic and your brain won’t shut up, Pilates forces you to slow down and focus.

    The rhythmic movement and controlled breathing activate your parasympathetic nervous system—basically, your body’s natural chill-out mode.

    Instead of spiralling into anxious thoughts, you’re laser-focused on nailing that workout or holding that plank just a little longer. It’s meditation in motion—and way more fun than sitting still (sometimes).

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    2. Cuts Cortisol (a.k.a. the Stress Hormone)

    Cortisol is that pesky stress hormone that wreaks havoc on your body and your mental health.

    When it’s too high, you feel wired, irritable, and exhausted. Pilates swoops in like a hero, lowering cortisol levels while gently torching fat and strengthening your muscles.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates improves stress regulation and helps balance hormones associated with stress and anxiety (Kim, Shim, & Han, 2019).


    3. Works Like Active Meditation

    If sitting cross-legged and chanting “Om” isn’t your thing, no worries—Pilates is basically moving meditation.

    Every lift, stretch, and breath keeps you fully present, helping you escape the never-ending mental to-do list.

    That mindfulness means you’re not just going through the motions—you’re tuning in to your body, your breath, and your strength.

    And that? That’s where the magic happens.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates enhances mindfulness, reducing stress and promoting overall well-being (Caldwell et al., 2013).

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    4. Boosts Endorphins Without Exhaustion

    We all love that post-workout high, but let’s be real—some workouts leave you feeling shattered. Pilates gives you that endorphin rush without the exhaustion.

    It’s a low-impact, high-reward way to feel fantastic without needing a two-hour nap afterward.

    So if you want to boost your mood without dripping in sweat, a Pilates workout routine for beginners is exactly what you need.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    A study found that Pilates increases positive mood and energy levels without the extreme fatigue associated with high-intensity exercise (Fleming & Herring, 2018).


    5. Improves Focus & Mental Clarity

    Pilates demands precision, coordination, and concentration. You can’t be mentally planning dinner when you’re trying to engage your deep core muscles or perfect a floor Pilates exercise.

    This laser focus carries over into your daily life—helping you stay sharp, alert, and on top of your game.

    Whether you’re tackling a work project or just trying to remember where you put your keys, Pilates trains your brain to be fully present and engaged.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates has been linked to improved cognitive function and attention span (Memmedova, 2015).


    6. Helps You Sleep Like a Baby

    Struggle to switch off at night? Pilates relaxes your body, calms your nervous system, and releases tension, making it the perfect pre-bedtime routine.

    A few gentle Wall Pilates exercises for beginners can loosen tight muscles, reduce stress, and set the stage for deep, restorative sleep. Bonus points if you follow it up with a warm bath and a cosy book.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    A randomised controlled trial found that Pilates significantly improves sleep quality, reducing disturbances and increasing deep sleep duration (Aibar-Almazán et al., 2019).


    7. Strengthens Your Mind-Body Connection

    Ever feel disconnected from your own body? Pilates changes that. It teaches you to move with intention, listen to what your body needs, and appreciate how strong you truly are.

    Over time, this awareness spills over into everything—how you sit, how you stand, how you carry yourself, and even how you eat. It’s a full lifestyle shift that makes you more in tune with your health and happiness.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates is a mind-body practice that enhances body awareness and mindfulness, improving both physical and mental health (Caldwell et al., 2013).


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    8. Stops Negative Self-Talk in Its Tracks

    That inner voice that tells you you’re not strong enough, not fit enough, not flexible enough? Pilates shuts it up real quick.

    Every time you hold a plank a little longer, master a new move, or complete a beginner Pilates workout, you prove to yourself that you CAN do hard things. And that, my friend, is a confidence boost like no other.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Studies show Pilates increases self-esteem and positive self-perception, helping to combat negative thinking patterns (Meikis, Wicker, & Donath, 2021).


    9. Encourages You to Celebrate Small Wins

    Pilates isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. And that’s a mindset shift that changes everything.

    Whether you’re holding a pose for five seconds longer or finally feeling stable in a side plank, every little improvement is worth celebrating.

    This teaches you to appreciate small wins in every part of life.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates promotes a mindset of progress over perfection, which has been linked to improved mental resilience and satisfaction with life (Kim, Shim, & Han, 2019).


    10. Builds Emotional Resilience

    Life throws curveballs. Pilates teaches you how to breathe through challenges, find balance, and keep pushing forward—not just in your workout, but in life.

    That ability to stay steady, even when things feel tough, is one of the most underrated benefits of Pilates. You’re not just getting physically strong—you’re becoming mentally unshakable.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates has been found to help regulate emotions and improve coping strategies in stressful situations (Fleming et al., 2020).

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    11. Helps You Release Stored-Up Tension

    Stress gets trapped in your shoulders, neck, and lower back. Pilates releases that tension while strengthening your muscles, so you’re not just stretching—you’re building strength where you need it most.

    Regular Pilates workouts will have you moving more freely, standing taller, and feeling lighter in both body and mind.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Regular Pilates training has been shown to reduce muscle tension, particularly in the shoulders, neck, and back (Bais et al., 2021).


    12. Encourages Better Posture = More Confidence

    Slouching = low energy and low confidence. Standing tall? That’s a power move.

    Pilates strengthens your core, spine, and shoulders, helping you walk taller and own your space.

    And trust me, when your posture improves, so does your self-esteem.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates significantly improves posture and spinal alignment, which can lead to greater confidence and a positive self-image (Curi et al., 2018).


    13. Gets You Out of Your Head (and Into Your Body)

    If you’re stuck in a loop of overthinking, Pilates gives your brain a break. It forces you to be fully present, shifting your focus from stress to strength.

    By the end of your session, you’ll feel lighter, clearer, and ready to take on whatever life throws at you.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates has been shown to reduce overthinking and improve mental clarity by focusing attention on movement and breath control (Caldwell et al., 2013).


    14. Supports Fat Burning Without Stressing Your Nervous System

    Unlike extreme workouts that wreck your recovery, Pilates burns fat while keeping your body in balance. It’s gentle but effective, making it the best long-term strategy for sustainable results.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Pilates has been shown to aid in fat loss while keeping cortisol levels in check, making it a sustainable form of exercise (Gouveia et al., 2021).

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    15. Fuels Self-Love & Body Positivity

    Pilates isn’t about looking a certain way—it’s about feeling strong and empowered. You’re not punishing your body; you’re celebrating what it can do.

    And that shift? That’s life-changing.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Studies indicate that Pilates enhances self-acceptance and body appreciation, reducing the pressure to achieve unrealistic body standards (Meikis, Wicker, & Donath, 2021).

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    16. Creates a Sense of Community

    Pilates isn’t just a workout—it’s a movement. Whether you join my 28-day Wall Pilates challenge, or connect with others in a class, you’re part of a supportive, uplifting community.

    And having that accountability and encouragement makes all the difference.

    The Science-y Stuff:

    Group-based Pilates classes foster a strong sense of support and community, which can improve motivation and mental well-being (Kim, Shim, & Han, 2019).


    Final Thought: Pilates = Your Mental Health Superpower

    So, here’s the bottom line—Pilates isn’t just exercise, it’s self-care in motion. It’s the key to better mental health, lower stress, and a stronger, more confident you.

    Whether you’re battling anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, or just looking for a way to shake off the day’s chaos, Pilates is there to recentre, recharge, and rebuild your strength from the inside out.

    And the best part? You don’t need fancy equipment, a gym membership, or even a lot of time.

    Pilates helps you tune into your body, quiet the mental noise, and embrace the small victories—like standing taller, sleeping better, and feeling calmer in everyday life.

    So, what are you waiting for? Roll out your mat, take a deep breath, and start moving. Your body, your mind, and your mental health will thank you for it.

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  • Wake Up for You: 5 Calming Morning Routines to Match Your Mood

    Let’s face it, not all mornings are created equal, and so not all calming morning routines will work for you. Some days, you wake up feeling ready to conquer the world; other days, you’d rather crawl back under the duvet and pretend life doesn’t exist.

    We’ve all been there, haven’t we?

    So, here’s the deal: your morning routine doesn’t have to be the same every day. Tailoring it to how you feel can make a world of difference.

    Whether you’re burnt out, stressed, or just feeling meh, I’ve got you covered with calming morning routines designed to match your mood. Ready to dive in?


    You’ve been running on empty, and it’s time to refuel. This relaxing morning routine is all about keeping things simple and nourishing your soul.

    Routine:

    1. Wake up slowly – Set a gentle alarm or let natural light wake you up if possible.
    2. Drink a glass of water – Hydrate before you caffeinate.
    3. Stretch in bed – No need to get up just yet; a few lazy stretches will do.
    4. Listen to nature sounds or soft music – Create a peaceful atmosphere to ease into your day.
    5. Write one thing you’re grateful for – Keep it short and sweet to lift your mood.
    6. Enjoy a nourishing breakfast – Think porridge with honey or avocado toast. Something comforting but light.
    7. Keep screens off for the first hour – Let your mind rest from all the noise.

    Pro Tip: Burnout thrives on overdoing it. Keep your routine slow and gentle—this is your time to recharge.


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    Stress can hit like a ton of bricks, but you can take control. This peaceful morning routine is designed to calm your racing thoughts and set a positive tone for the day.

    Routine:

    1. Do 5 minutes of deep breathing – Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four.
    2. Write a quick to-do list – Focus on 3-5 priorities to reduce overwhelm.
    3. Move your body – A brisk walk, a gentle yoga flow, or even dancing to your favourite tune. Shake that stress off!
    4. Drink herbal tea – Chamomile or peppermint are great options to calm your nerves.
    5. Read a positive affirmation – Something like, “I am capable of handling whatever comes my way today.”
    6. Tidy your space – A 5-minute declutter can help clear your mind, too.

    Pro Tip: When you’re stressed, the key is to focus on simple habits that ground you, rather than trying to do everything at once.


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    Some mornings feel heavier than others, and that’s okay. This self-love morning routine is all about lifting your spirits with kindness and care.

    Routine:

    1. Play your favourite song – Something upbeat to get you smiling (even if it’s just a little).
    2. Wrap up in a cosy blanket – Stay warm and comfy while you ease into your day.
    3. Journal your feelings – No pressure, just let it all out. Sometimes, writing it down helps lighten the load.
    4. Have a comforting drink – Hot chocolate, herbal tea, or your favourite coffee—make it a little ritual.
    5. Step outside for fresh air – Even if it’s just opening a window. Let the outside world remind you it’s still there.
    6. Repeat an affirmation“I am worthy of love and kindness.” Say it as many times as you need. (Check this post out for some self-love affirmations to go with these calming morning routines).
    7. Eat something nourishing – Think scrambled eggs, toast, or a banana—something easy and satisfying.

    Pro Tip: On low days, it’s not about doing loads. Even the smallest step forward counts as a win.

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    On those rare mornings when you wake up ready to conquer the world, you need a routine that matches your vibe. Let’s make the most of it!

    Routine:

    1. Drink water immediately – Start as you mean to go on—hydrated and ready to slay.
    2. Do 10-15 minutes of exercise – A quick workout, yoga, or even a dance party in your kitchen.
    3. Write down your goals for the day – Get clear on what you want to achieve.
    4. Eat a balanced breakfast – Protein, carbs, and healthy fats. You’re fuelling greatness, babe!
    5. Practise mindfulness – A quick meditation or a gratitude journal to keep you grounded.
    6. Tidy your workspace – Clear space = clear mind = total productivity queen.

    Pro Tip: Feeling energised? Use it wisely! Prioritise your goals and channel that energy into something meaningful.

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    You wake up not knowing how you feel—just meh. This easy morning routine keeps it simple, so you don’t waste energy deciding what to do.

    Routine:

    1. Start with water – Easy, effective, and no thinking required.
    2. Stretch or do a light yoga flow – Move without overthinking it.
    3. Write a brain dump – Get all the random thoughts out of your head and onto paper.
    4. Eat a quick breakfast – Keep it simple: toast, yoghurt, or fruit.
    5. Pick one focus for the day – Decide on one thing and roll with it.

    Pro Tip: When in doubt, keep it minimal. The less you have to think, the more energy you save for the rest of the day.


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    No matter how you’re feeling when you wake up, there’s a morning routine idea to help you reset and take control.

    Whether you’re burnt out, stressed, low, or energised, the key is to listen to your body and adjust accordingly.

    Building positive daily habits like these can make mornings something you look forward to rather than dread.

    So go on, give one of these calming morning routines a try and see how much calmer, fresher, and more positive your days become.

    You’ve got this, —your mornings (and your life) are about to get a serious upgrade.

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  • Beat Insomnia: 11 Quick Hacks to Fall Asleep Faster Tonight

    Fall Asleep Faster

    Picture this: you’re lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, convincing yourself you’re not tired, begging the sleep gods to help you fall asleep faster. Meanwhile, your brain’s running a highlight reel of that embarrassing thing you said in 2007.

    Sound familiar? Been there, done that, got the bags under my eyes to prove it.

    But don’t worry. You’re not doomed to a life of tossing, turning, and watching ASMR videos at 2 AM.

    I’ve got you covered with 11 life-changing sleep hacks—because you deserve to fall asleep fast like a baby (the kind that doesn’t wake up every hour, unlike my little one).

    Let’s dive into this list of no-nonsense, practical tips to help you fall asleep quickly. Because we’re not here for fluff, we’re here for results.


    Why Insomnia Happens (and Why It’s Not Your Fault)

    First off, let’s clear something up—you’re not broken. Insomnia happens to the best of us. Maybe you’re stressed, scared, or just overwhelmed with life’s chaos.

    If you’re working nights, dealing with kids who think bedtime is optional, or trying to survive that sick season period, it’s no wonder your sleep’s gone AWOL.

    I know how it feels—I battled postpartum depression, night-time panic attacks, and even gave hypnotherapy a go (spoiler: didn’t work for me).

    But here’s the good news: I found some brilliant sleep strategies that do.

    Now, let’s get you sorted with these hacks to help you fall asleep quickly, wake up refreshed, and tackle your day like the superstar you are.

    Need more joy in your day? After improving your sleep, check out 15 Happiness Tips That Will Make Life More Enjoyable for a boost!


    Hack 1: Keep Your Bedroom a Sleep Sanctuary

    Your sleep environment matters more than you think.

    If your room’s hotter than a summer heatwave or as bright as a nightclub, it’s no wonder you can’t sleep. Keep it cool, dark, and quiet.

    • Invest in blackout curtains and a fan or heater, depending on your needs.
    • Keep your bedroom screen-free. Work laptops, phones, and TVs have no business hanging out where you sleep. Not only does blue light mess with your sleep hormones, but seeing that spreadsheet at bedtime isn’t exactly relaxing.
    • Declutter your space—yes, that curly bun of clothes in the corner counts!
    • Use a white noise machine or an ASMR playlist if silence freaks you out.
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    Hack 2: Master the Art of a Bedtime Routine

    Your body loves routine. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends.

    • Wind down with a warm drink (decaf, obviously).
    • Do something calming, like reading or stretching. Avoid doom-scrolling TikTok—you know it doesn’t help.

    Hack 3: Use Pressure Points for Instant Calm

    Here’s a little psychological trick I swear by: acupressure. There’s a magic spot on your wrist called the “spirit gate.”

    Massage it gently for a minute or two, and you might just feel your stress melt away.

    It’s one of those sneaky insomnia remedies that can help, but let’s be real—it’s not a miracle cure.

    If your mind is racing at 100 miles an hour, you’ll still need a bit of effort to calm it down.

    Want more options? Here are four other acupressure points to try:

    1. Anmian (Peaceful Sleep): Located just behind your earlobe, in the dip where your neck meets your skull. Apply light pressure to encourage relaxation.
    2. Shenmen (Heavenly Gate): Found on the upper part of your ear, near the inner curve. This one’s great for reducing anxiety and helping you unwind.
    3. Tai Chong (Liver 3): On the top of your foot, in the webbing between your big toe and the one next to it. Massage here to ease tension and calm your mind.
    4. Yin Tang (Third Eye): Right between your eyebrows. Gently press or massage this spot to help quiet your thoughts.

    Acupressure is a brilliant tool to have in your bedtime routine, but remember, it works best when combined with other sleep strategies.

    Give it a go and see which points work for you!

    Craving a slower pace? After mastering your sleep, explore my Lazy Sunday Morning Routine for cosy self-care ideas to unwind this weekend!


    Hack 4: Journal the Junk Out of Your Brain

    When your mind’s racing faster than a toddler on sugar, grab a pen and notebook.

    • Write down your worries, your to-do list, or random thoughts.
    • It’s like a brain dump—gets the rubbish out of your head so you can fall asleep peacefully.

    Hack 5: Breathe Like You Mean It

    The 4-7-8 breathing technique is my go-to when I’m panicking at night. Breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 7, exhale for 8. Repeat until you feel your body relax.

    It’s like a reset button for your nervous system.

    If you’re someone who loves a bit of guidance, the Calm app has some simple breathing techniques for sleep.

    Whether it’s 4-7-8 or other methods designed to ease you into relaxation, it’s worth having in your toolkit for those restless nights.


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    Hack 6: Release Tension with Light Movement and Relaxation

    Before you start yelling, “I’m too tired for that!” hear me out. Gentle yoga or stretching can help you fall asleep fast by releasing tension in your muscles.

    Think of it as a pre-sleep treat for your body.

    A few easy stretches or a relaxing child’s pose can do wonders for calming your mind and preparing you for rest.

    If yoga’s not your thing, try progressive muscle relaxation instead. It’s a simple technique that works by tensing and relaxing each muscle group in your body, one at a time. Here’s how to do it:

    1. Start small. Tense your toes for 5 seconds, then let go completely.
    2. Move upward. Focus on your calves, thighs, and so on, working your way through each muscle group.
    3. Don’t skip your face. Relaxing your jaw and forehead can be surprisingly effective.
    4. Pair it with deep breathing. As you let go of each muscle, imagine the tension melting away.

    Hack 7: Snack Smart

    Certain foods can help you drift off. Bananas, almonds, and a cheeky bit of dark chocolate are my favourites.

    They’re full of magnesium, which is brilliant for calming your body down.

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    Hack 8: Try Sleep Products That Actually Work

    I can’t live without my weighted blanket now, it’s one of the best purchases I’ve ever made. They are a game-changer for anxiety and insomnia.

    I also swear by pillow sprays—spray a bit on your pillow, and you’ll be out like a light.

    Here are my sleep must-haves:

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    Hack 9: Avoid Screens (No, Really)

    I know, I know—Netflix is calling. But blue light messes with your sleep hormones. Switch off your devices an hour before bed.

    If you’re really desperate, grab some blue-light-blocking glasses.


    Hack 10: Don’t Fight It

    If you’re lying there for more than 20 minutes, get up and do something calming.

    Read a book, do a puzzle, or even fold laundry (trust me, nothing’s more boring).


    Hack 11: Focus on the Good Stuff

    When you’re lying in bed, don’t think about how tired you’ll be tomorrow. Instead, imagine something lovely—a holiday, a cosy cabin, or even the smell of freshly baked bread.

    Positive visualisation works wonders.

    Stress keeping you up? Dive into Cortisol Diet 101 for tips on balancing stress hormones and supporting better sleep naturally!


    What Worked for Me (and Can Work for You Too)

    As someone who’s been through the wars with postpartum insomnia and night-time panic attacks, I know how hard it can be to quiet your mind and actually get some rest.

    For me, it wasn’t just about these sleep tips—I also did some therapy to work through my panic attacks. That combination made all the difference.

    I’m not here to promise miracles because let’s be real, life doesn’t work like that.

    But I can tell you this: these sleep strategies gave me the tools I needed to make my nights a little easier.

    They didn’t fix everything overnight, but they helped me take back some control—and that’s a win in my book.

    If I can do it (with a baby, no less), so can you. You’ve got this.


    Final Thoughts: Sleep Like You Mean It

    Now you’ve got a list of tips, life hacks, and sleep strategies to fall asleep quickly. It’s time to stop dreading bedtime and start owning it.

    You’re not alone in this battle, but you are in control.

    Try a few of these tonight and let me know how they work for you. Sweet dreams!

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    Studies

    Studies have demonstrated that acupressure significantly improves sleep quality, reduces sleep disturbances, and decreases nocturnal awakenings. For example, a study with institutionalised residents showed that acupressure effectively reduced sleep latency and improved overall sleep quality (Chen et al., 1999).

    Meta-analyses suggest that acupressure and auricular therapy are more effective than no treatment or routine care for insomnia. While evidence is promising, further research is needed to confirm long-term benefits (Yeung et al., 2012).

    Progressive muscle relaxation and meditation techniques, such as the 4-7-8 breathing exercise, have been shown to significantly reduce sleep onset latency and promote relaxation, supporting their use as complementary sleep aids (Woolfolk et al., 1976).

    A systematic review found evidence that integrating cognitive-behavioural therapy with acupressure provides additional benefits for insomnia sufferers, including improvements in fatigue and daytime function (Ho et al., 2021).

    Research supports the use of yoga and light stretching to reduce muscle tension and prepare the body for rest. A breathing technique studied in insomniacs was found to promote drowsiness effectively (Farrow, 2006).

  • Cortisol Diet 101: Your Guide to Balancing Stress Hormones


    Let’s talk about something most of us women don’t realise is controlling our lives: hormones. Those sneaky little things are behind your acne flare-ups, random mood swings, and that stubborn belly fat. Yep, it’s not just you—it’s those pesky stress hormones running riot, especially cortisol.

    But here’s the good news: you can balance your hormones naturally, and it starts with what’s on your plate.

    Enter a cortisol diet—your new best friend for bringing those stress levels down, helping with hormonal imbalances, and yes, even making that hormonal weight gain pack its bags.

    Let’s get into it: how to balance hormones, tackle stress, and feel more like yourself again. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t involve kale smoothies for every meal.

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    What is Cortisol, and Why Should You Care?

    First off, cortisol is your body’s stress hormone—your fight-or-flight sidekick. It’s not inherently a bad things.

    But here’s the catch: when cortisol’s doing overtime (cheers, stress!), it starts wreaking havoc.

    We’re talking acne, sugar cravings, sleepless nights, and a waistline that seems to expand faster than you can say “pass the biscuits.”

    Too much cortisol doesn’t just stress you out—it throws your entire hormonal ecosystem into chaos. And when hormones like estrogen and progesterone join the drama, you’re looking at symptoms like low energy, bloating, and more weight gain.

    Fun times, right?

    But don’t worry, we’ve got the ultimate plan to help you reset your hormones and give cortisol the boot.

    Think your cortisol levels might be out of control? High cortisol can lead to all sorts of sneaky symptoms like fatigue and weight gain. Check out my post on the signs of high cortisol in women to learn more about what to look out for.


    Cortisol Diet Basics: Where to Start

    A hormone diet (or hormone-balancing diet, if we’re being fancy) is all about feeding your body what it needs to calm down and sort itself out. Think of it like giving your body a nice cup of tea and a pep talk.

    The right foods = happy, healthy hormones.

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    What to Add to Your Plate

    Here are the all-stars of the cortisol diet:

    Salmon: Packed with omega-3s, which help lower inflammation and support natural hormone balance. Plus, it’s delicious.

    Spinach: Full of magnesium to calm those stress levels. It’s like a spa day for your insides.

    Berries: Antioxidant powerhouses that fight inflammation and support a healthy microbiome.

    Nuts and Seeds: Brilliant for healthy fats and fibre—both essential for hormone balance and tackling weight gain.

    Dark Chocolate: Yes, you read that right. A bit of dark choc can help regulate cortisol and give you a mood boost.

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    What to Avoid Like the Plague

    Some foods aren’t doing your hormones any favours. Here’s what to cut back on:

    Processed Junk: Cakes, crisps, and all those sugary snacks spike cortisol faster than a toddler on a sugar rush.

    Caffeine Overload: Your fourth cup of coffee? Yeah, that’s not helping. Try swapping for herbal tea.

    Alcohol: I know, I know, but too much booze can throw off your estrogen levels and make your stress worse.

    Cutting out processed foods and sugary snacks is step one in tackling a stress belly caused by cortisol. For more tips on reducing belly fat linked to stress, read my post on how to get rid of stress belly naturally.

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    Quick Wins for Hormonal Balance

    If you’re busy (aren’t we all?), here are a few easy swaps to start balancing your hormones naturally:

    Breakfast: Swap sugary cereal for porridge topped with berries and seeds.

    Lunch: Add leafy greens to whatever you’re eating (sandwiches count!).

    Snacks: Keep nuts, hummus, or a boiled egg handy for healthy proteins.

    These small tweaks will start calming that cortisol chaos and set you up for healthy hormones long-term.

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    The Bigger Picture: Beyond Food

    Now, I’m not going to lie—food’s a big part of this, but it’s not the whole shebang. Hormonal health is also about how you live your life. Here’s how to go the extra mile:

    Sleep Like It’s Your Job: Poor sleep sends your cortisol levels sky-high. Aim for 7-9 hours a night, and keep your bedtime routine simple.

    Move Your Body, Gently: Forget punishing workouts. Yoga, walking, or light strength training are fab for balancing hormones naturally.

    De-Stress Daily: A bit of mindfulness, deep breathing, or journaling goes a long way. Stress management = happy hormones.


    How the Cortisol Diet Can Change Your Life

    Stick to this plan, and you’ll notice the difference: better energy, clearer skin, less bloating, and those pesky cravings won’t have you raiding the biscuit tin at midnight.

    It’s all about small, sustainable changes that lead to big results.

    Remember, balancing hormones isn’t a quick fix—it’s a journey.

    You’re rewiring how your body responds to stress, one meal and one habit at a time. And trust me, you’ve got this.

    How to Reduce High Cortisol Levels for Good!

    If stress has been running the show—messing with your energy, cravings, and waistline—it’s time to take back control. This series is all about lowering cortisol naturally, stopping stress-driven weight gain, and helping you feel like yourself again.

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    Final Pep Talk

    Your hormones aren’t the boss of you—you’re the boss of them. With a cortisol diet, you can take back control, feel better in your own skin, and live a life where your hormones work for you, not against you.

    So, ready to get started?

    Go on, give this a go, and let me know how you feel. You’ve got this! 💪

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    Studies

    High cortisol levels caused by chronic stress can disrupt sleep, increase cravings, and lead to hormonal imbalances. A hormone-balancing diet can help regulate cortisol and improve overall health (Stachowicz & Lebiedzińska, 2016).

    Foods rich in magnesium (like spinach) and omega-3 fatty acids (such as salmon) can help reduce cortisol and inflammation, supporting hormone balance (Grzebisz, 2016).

    Adaptogens like ashwagandha can effectively lower stress hormones, helping to restore balance to the hormonal system (Anju & Ghosh, 2021).

    Essential oils like lavender, when used in aromatherapy or topically, have been shown to reduce cortisol and aid relaxation (Suyono et al., 2020).

  • 36+ Ideas for Self Care Gifts for Women


    Let’s be honest—shopping for gifts can feel like herding cats, especially when you want to show the women in your life how much they mean to you. Self care gifts are the perfect solution because they say, “I see how hard you’re working, and you deserve some proper me-time!”

    Whether you’re putting together a gorgeous gift basket, scouting out the best self care presents, or tackling some DIY relaxation gift basket ideas, this post has got you covered.

    We’re talking the kind of gifts that’ll make your best mate, your mum, or even your sister say, “How did you know I needed this?”

    To make things easier, I’ve included a mix of budget-friendly, mid-range, and luxury options for each gift idea.

    Because self-care shouldn’t have a price tag—it’s all about showing you care!

    This means different things to different people, so here’s a breakdown of how I’ve classified them:

    • Budget: $5–$20
    • Mid-Range: $20–$50
    • Luxury: $50+

    So, grab a cuppa, and let’s dive into the ultimate self care gifts that’ll make you the gifting MVP this year!

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    1. For the Stressed-Out Friend

    We all have that one friend who’s perpetually frazzled—always juggling work, family, and the apocalypse-level drama of daily life.

    Give her the gift of calm with a stress relief kit gift idea.

    Think essential oil rollerballs, a soothing lavender-scented candle, and maybe even a mini mindfulness journal.

    Budget: Lavender-scented candle, stress relief rollerball.

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    Mid-Range: Mini mindfulness journal, essential oils set.

    Luxury: Aromatherapy diffuser with high-quality oils.

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    Pro tip: Pop it all into a chic self care bag for women or a cute self care kit for men if you’re feeling inclusive—stress doesn’t discriminate!


    2. For the Sleep-Deprived Mum (aka Me)

    Mums are basically superheroes, but even they need their beauty sleep.

    Create a spa self care gift basket filled with must-have self care items like a silk eye mask, a lavender pillow spray, and a weighted blanket.

    Bonus points if you throw in some fancy herbal teas for those late-night wind-downs.

    Budget: Silk eye mask, herbal tea set.

    Mid-Range: Weighted blanket, lavender pillow spray.

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    Luxury: High-end pyjama set or a sound machine with soothing sleep tracks.

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    Trust me, she’ll thank you when she’s finally snoozing like a baby—her actual baby, not so much.


    3. For the Overworked Colleague

    That colleague who’s always burning the midnight oil? Save them from work-induced burnout with a thoughtful desk-friendly self care package gift idea.

    Include a cute succulent, a stress ball, and a fancy planner to help them boss 2024.

    Budget: Stress ball, desk plant.

    Mid-Range: Cute planner, mug warmer.

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    Luxury: Adjustable desk lamp with wellness settings.

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    Pop it into a self care bag for women and boom—you’ve just elevated office Secret Santa to a whole new level!


    4. For the Health-Conscious Sister

    Got a sister who’s always up for a yoga class or banging on about her steps count? Put together a health care gift basket she’ll adore.

    Think resistance bands, an infuser water bottle, and a set of healthy snack bars.

    Budget: Resistance bands, infuser water bottle.

    Mid-Range: Healthy snack subscription box, yoga block and strap set.

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    Luxury: Fitness tracker or organic skincare gift box.

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    If you’re feeling extra, add a gift card for a spa weekend or a wellness hamper idea filled with organic goodies.

    She’ll be namaste-ing in your debt.


    5. For the Beauty-Loving Bestie

    If your bestie knows her way around a skincare aisle better than you know your postcode, treat her to a skin care basket DIY gift.

    Fill it with sheet masks, a gua sha tool, and a luxurious moisturiser.

    Budget: Sheet masks, jade roller.

    Mid-Range: Skincare fridge, luxury hand cream.

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    Luxury: High-end skincare or a gua sha and serum bundle.

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    Level up with a beauty small business find—supporting indie brands while giving your best mate glowing skin?

    Win-win!


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    SELF CARE GIFT IDEAS FOR WOMEN FOR CHRISTMAS

    6. For the Cosy Enthusiast

    For the friend who lives in fluffy socks and can’t get enough of autumn vibes, go for a comfort basket.

    Add a chunky knit blanket, a mug with her favourite tea, and a book she can lose herself in.

    Budget: Fluffy socks, festive mug with hot chocolate sachets.

    Mid-Range: Chunky knit blanket, fairy lights.

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    Luxury: Cashmere throw or a premium tea gift set.

    Wrap it up with some fairy lights, and you’ve got yourself a gift box for a best friend that’s cosy perfection.


    7. For the Spa-at-Home Queen

    Why hit the spa when you can bring it home? Create a spa gift bag idea with bath bombs, Epsom salts, and a bamboo bath tray.

    Add a bottle of wine or a good book to complete the experience.

    Budget: Bath bombs, Epsom salts.

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    Mid-Range: Bamboo bath tray, scented candle gift set.

    Luxury: High-end skincare and spa kit or an at-home foot spa.

    Self care presents like these practically scream, “Take the night off, you deserve it!”


    8. For the Busy Bee

    Know someone who’s always on the go?

    Gift her a self care essentials products kit she can carry anywhere. Include a hydrating hand cream, lip balm, and a pocket-sized mindfulness book.

    Budget: Hydrating hand cream, pocket-sized mindfulness book.

    Mid-Range: Leather-bound journal, travel skincare set.

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    Luxury: Designer self care bag for women with compartments for all her essentials.

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    Perfect for keeping calm on the commute!


    9. For the Crafty DIY Lover

    Some people love a gift they can make themselves, so why not go for DIY self care gifts?

    A make-your-own candle kit or a bath bomb set will let her get creative while relaxing.

    Budget: DIY candle-making kit, craft supplies like washi tape or pens.

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    Mid-Range: Bath bomb-making kit, embroidery starter kit.

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    Luxury: High-quality art supplies or a subscription to a craft box.

    Top it off with a gift box for a best friend filled with mini treats, and you’re golden.


    10. For the Fitness Fanatic

    If she’s into her workouts, a wellness hamper idea with fitness must-haves will be right up her street.

    Think resistance bands, a yoga strap, or even a massage gun for post-workout recovery.

    Budget: Resistance bands, sweat towel.

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    Mid-Range: Yoga mat with alignment markings, post-workout massage ball.

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    Luxury: Percussion massage gun or workout gear.

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    It’s a self care gift basket that says, “Smash those goals, but don’t forget to recover!”


    11. For the Homebody

    For the woman who loves staying in, a self care accessory set is perfect. Fill a box with fluffy slippers, a heating pad, and a Netflix gift card.

    Budget: Fluffy slippers, a cosy blanket.

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    Mid-Range: Heating pad, premium hot chocolate kit.

    Luxury: Netflix gift card paired with a luxe robe.

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    She’ll never want to leave her sofa again, and honestly, can you blame her?


    12. For the Woman Who Has Everything

    When in doubt, go luxury.

    A themed gift basket for women filled with high-end skincare, gourmet chocolates, and maybe even a silk robe will have her swooning.

    Budget: Gourmet chocolate box, silk pillowcase.

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    Mid-Range: High-end candle, luxury skincare trio.

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    Luxury: Designer spa gift bag with premium self care accessories.

    This is a “treat yourself” moment, and she’s worth every penny.


    Wrap It Up

    And there you have it—36+ thoughtful, fabulous self care gifts for women that’ll make you the star of the holidays this year.

    Whether you’re putting together a DIY relaxation gift basket, curating the perfect spa gift bag ideas, or keeping it simple with must-have self care items, these gifts are sure to show the women in your life just how much you care.

    Now, go on—start ticking off your gift list and remember, you deserve a little treat too.

    Maybe grab yourself a self care kit while you’re at it. It’s called balance, my friend!

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  • 25 Amazon Products to Help Lower Cortisol and Reduce Stress Naturally


    Feeling like life’s a never-ending stress spiral? High cortisol might be at the root of your fatigue, mood swings, and even that stubborn belly bloat.

    But here’s the good news: with the right tools, you can tackle stress head-on and bring your body back into balance.

    In this post, I’ve rounded up 27 Amazon products designed to help lower cortisol, reduce stress, and support your overall well-being.

    From relaxation tools to fitness essentials, these picks will have you feeling like yourself again in no time.

    Not sure if cortisol is the problem? Check out my guide on Signs of High Cortisol in Women and How to Lower It to learn more about symptoms, causes, and natural fixes.


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    Relaxation and Stress Relief Tools

    Relaxation is key to reducing cortisol levels and calming your body’s stress response. These products make it easier to unwind, even after the most hectic days.

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    Essential Oil Diffuser

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    Aromatherapy Candles

    Acupressure Mat

    Massage Tools

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    These simple tools can turn your home into a mini oasis of calm. Imagine wrapping yourself in a weighted blanket or drifting off to the scent of lavender from an essential oil diffuser. Blissful, isn’t it?


    Supplements for Lowering Cortisol Naturally

    The right supplements can work wonders in balancing your hormones and reducing stress levels. These options support your body’s natural ability to handle stress:

    Ashwagandha Capsules

    Magnesium Glycinate

    Vitamin D Supplements

    Omega-3 Fish Oil

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    Whether it’s sipping on a calming tea or boosting your diet with adaptogens, these supplements make managing stress simple and effective.


    Mindfulness and Journaling Tools

    Mindfulness is more than just a buzzword—it’s a proven way to reduce cortisol and increase mental clarity. These tools help you stay present and process your thoughts:

    Guided Journals

    Adult Colouring Books

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    Meditation Cushions

    Stress-Relief Workbooks

    Set aside 10 minutes a day to journal, colour, or meditate, and watch how quickly your stress melts away. These small habits can make a big difference in regulating cortisol levels.


    Fitness and Movement Essentials

    Exercise is one of the most effective ways to lower cortisol levels, but not all workouts are created equal. These products are perfect for cortisol-lowering workouts:

    Yoga Mat


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    Resistance Bands

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    Walking Shoes

    Mini Trampoline

    Gentle movement, like yoga or walking, can help your body release tension without spiking cortisol. These tools make it easy to stay active without overdoing it.


    Sleep Support Products

    Sleep is one of the most powerful tools for reducing cortisol levels. These products can help you create a restful environment and stick to a cortisol regulation routine:

    Blue Light Blocking Glasses

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    Blackout Curtains

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    Sleep Masks

    White Noise Machines

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    Getting quality rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. Block out distractions, protect your evening wind-down time, and prioritise your sleep for lower cortisol and better health.


    Diet and Nutrition Tools

    What you eat plays a massive role in reducing cortisol levels. These tools make it easier to incorporate cortisol-friendly foods into your daily routine:

    High-Powered Blender

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    Meal Prep Containers

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    Blend up a smoothies vegan or whip up meal-prepped lunches packed with whole, nutritious cortisol foods.

    And yes, dark chocolate counts—it’s rich in magnesium, which is brilliant for lowering cortisol naturally.


    How to Reduce High Cortisol Levels for Good!

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    Final Thoughts

    Managing high cortisol doesn’t have to be complicated.

    These products are simple, practical, and effective ways to bring your stress levels down and your life back into balance.

    You absolutely do not need everything on this list. Start with one or two that resonate with you—maybe a weighted blanket to improve sleep or a guided journal to process your thoughts.

    Over time, you’ll notice the difference in how you feel.

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