Mindful Living

  • Wellbeing

    How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours

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    So far in this series, we’ve covered lazy girl self-care, 5-minute self-care hacks, and how to build a self-care routine that actually fits into your life. But let’s talk about how to practice mindfulness—because every self-care guru on the internet swears by it, yet most advice makes it seem like you need to sit cross-legged in silence for an hour every morning.

    Not happening.

    The good news? Mindfulness doesn’t have to be complicated. It’s not just meditation, and it doesn’t require candles, mantras, or “emptying your mind” (whatever that means).

    You can practice mindfulness in seconds, while doing things you’re already doing—like drinking your morning coffee, taking a Sunday reset shower, or walking to the kitchen for another snack.

    If you’re tired of mindfulness feeling like another task on your to-do list, this is for you. Here’s how to bring mindfulness into your life—without the effort.

    Table of Contents

    1. Mindful Hydration: Romanticise Your Water Intake

    Most of us know we should drink more water, but it often feels like a chore. Mindfulness trick? Turn it into a ritual instead of a task.

    Try this:

    • Pour your drink slowly and notice the sound.
    • Take a sip and actually taste it (yes, even if it’s just water).
    • Imagine hydrating your body like a wellness queen—because you are.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Use a cute water bottle with a straw to make hydration feel more aesthetic and effortless.

    2. The One-Minute Check-In: No Journaling Required

    You don’t need a full self-care bullet journal to check in with yourself. Try this instead:

    • Ask yourself: What do I need right now?
    • Pause for 10 seconds before responding.
    • Acknowledge whatever comes up—without judgment.

    That’s it. No journaling, no deep analysis—just a quick mental reset to help you be more aware of what you need.

    Lazy Girl Tip: If you like writing things down, use the Notes app. No fancy journal required. Unless you really want one.

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    3. The “Mindful Minute” Trick: Stress Relief in 60 Seconds

    Overthinking? Feeling stressed? Try this simple 60-second reset:

    • Breathe in for 4 seconds.
    • Hold for 4 seconds.
    • Exhale for 4 seconds.
    • Repeat until your brain stops yelling at you.

    This trick forces you to pause, reset, and lower stress levels fast—perfect for busy moms, or anyone who doesn’t have time for a 30-minute meditation.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Do this while waiting for the kettle to boil or before checking your phone in the morning.

    4. Mindfulness While Doing Everyday Tasks

    The easiest way to practice mindfulness? Stop multitasking for a second and actually pay attention to what you’re doing.

    Try this while:

    • Drinking coffee – Notice the warmth, the taste, the first sip of happiness.
    • Showering – Focus on the water, the scent of your soap, the feeling of relaxation.
    • Walking – Feel your steps, notice the air, listen to the sounds around you.
    • Eating – Chew slowly, actually taste your food (instead of inhaling it like a gremlin).

    Lazy Girl Tip: Mindfulness isn’t about doing extra things—it’s about noticing the things you’re already doing.

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    5. The “Dopamine Menu” for Mindfulness

    If your brain thrives on variety, mindfulness can get boring fast. That’s where a dopamine menu comes in—a list of feel-good activities that help you stay present without doing the same thing every day.

    Your dopamine-boosting mindfulness menu might include:

    • Listening to ASMR videos (instant brain massage).
    • Doing a 5-minute stretch while focusing on how it feels.
    • Drinking an iced coffee in total silence (no phone, just vibes).
    • Looking at vision board photos for motivation.
    • Taking three slow breaths before checking notifications.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Check out this post on how to build a Dopamine menu here!

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    6. Mindfulness for Sleep: The Night-time Reset

    If your brain refuses to shut up at night, mindfulness can help—without turning bedtime into another “task.”

    Try these low-effort night-time mindfulness tricks:

    • Weighted sleep mask – Blocks out light and forces your brain to chill.
    • Scented pillow spray – Turns your bed into a self-care spa.
    • The 5-4-3-2-1 method – Name five things you see, four things you hear, three things you feel, two things you smell, one deep breath.
    • Dopamine reward – Give yourself a small reward for actually going to bed on time (because discipline needs a dopamine hit, too).

    Lazy Girl Tip: Make your bed feel extra inviting so sleep becomes something you look forward to, not just something you have to do.

    7. How to Make Mindfulness Stick (Without Trying Too Hard)

    Mindfulness isn’t one more thing to add to your to-do list—it’s just about being more present in what you’re already doing.

    Here’s how to make it effortless:

    • Habit stack it – Attach mindfulness to something you already do (e.g., deep breaths while brushing your teeth).
    • Romanticise it – Light a candle, make your morning drink extra fancy, put on cozy ASMR videos while unwinding.
    • Make it fun – Mindfulness should feel like a self-care lifestyle, not a chore.

    Lazy Girl Tip: If it feels boring or forced, you’re doing too much. Keep it simple.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.

    Final Thoughts: Mindfulness, But Make It Lazy

    You don’t need hours of meditation to practice mindfulness. Just tiny moments of awareness sprinkled throughout your day can make a huge difference.

    Here’s what to do next:

    • Pick one mindfulness trick and try it today.
    • Attach it to something you already do.
    • Let go of the idea that it has to be perfect.

    Next up: The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out—because sometimes, minimal effort is all you can manage.

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  • Wellbeing

    How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To

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    So, we’ve covered lazy girl self-care and how to squeeze in 5-minute self-care hacks when you’re short on time. But what if you want a self-care routine—something that actually makes you feel good without turning into a full-time job? Because let’s be honest, most “self-care routines” online are wildly unrealistic.

    If you’ve ever tried to follow a self-care routine that looked something like:

    • Wake up at 5 AM (nope)
    • 20-step skincare routine (absolutely not)
    • Journaling, yoga, green juice, meditation (who has time for all that?)
    • Vision board photos session followed by breathwork (why is self-care starting to feel like a full-time job?)

    …then you already know the problem isn’t self-care—it’s the pressure to do too much.

    So, let’s ditch the all-or-nothing mindset and build a self-care routine that works for your actual life. One that you can stick to, even on the busiest days.

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    1. Start with the Bare Minimum (Because That’s All You Actually Need)

    Forget the idea that self-care has to be some grand, time-consuming ritual. If your self-care lifestyle currently consists of drinking coffee and hoping for the best, let’s build from there.

    Here’s what a basic self-care routine actually needs:

    • Hydration – Because water is life.
    • Sleep – You function better when you’re not running on fumes.
    • Movement – Not the gym, unless you love it. A 5-minute stretch counts.
    • Skincare Staples – Cleanser, moisturiser, SPF. Everything else is optional.
    • One tiny habit that makes you happy – A quick dopamine-boosting win.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Start small. Trying to overhaul your whole routine overnight? Disaster waiting to happen.

    2. Use Habit Stacking for Effortless Self-Care

    If you struggle with self-care consistency, you’re not lazy—you just need a system. That��s where habit stacking comes in. Something I picked up from Atomic Habits by James Clear (check it out here!)

    How it works:

    • Attach a new habit to something you already do so you don’t forget.
    • Make it stupidly easy so there’s no excuse.

    Here are some self-care habit stacking ideas:

    • While making coffee → Drink a glass of water.
    • Before brushing your teeth → Do a 30-second stretch.
    • Before checking your phone in the morning → Take three deep breaths.
    • While watching TV → Use a hydrating face mask or do a mini stretch.

    Lazy Girl Tip: The less you have to think about self-care, the easier it is to stick to.

    3. Make Self-Care Fit Your Life (Not the Other Way Around)

    Some people love journaling, long walks, and Pinterest-worthy Sunday reset routines. If that’s not your vibe, that’s fine.

    Your self-care routine should match your personality, schedule, and energy levels.

    Need ideas? Try these:

    • For busy mums: A 5-minute shower reset while the baby naps.
    • For night owls: Swap the 5 AM routine for a relaxing evening routine instead.
    • For productivity queens: Block out self-care time like a meeting (yes, literally schedule it).
    • For lazy girl energy: Multitask self-care—stretch while scrolling, journal in your Notes app, or turn skincare into a mini self-care day.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Your self-care should be as effortless as possible. If it feels like a chore, you’re doing it wrong.

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    4. The Secret to Sticking to a Self-Care Routine: Make It Feel Good

    Most people quit routines because they’re boring or too much effort. The fix? Make it feel rewarding from the start.

    Here’s how:

    • Dopamine first. Do something instantly rewarding before harder tasks.
    • Romanticise it. Light a candle, use a cute water bottle, play chill music—whatever makes it feel extra.
    • Make it tiny. A 30-second self-care habit is easier to keep than a 30-minute one.

    Lazy Girl Tip: The more enjoyable self-care feels, the more likely you are to stick with it.

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    5. Stop Trying to Do Everything Every Day

    You do not need to do every self-care habit every single day—that’s how you burn out. Instead, rotate them.

    Try this:

    • Daily: The bare minimum habits (hydration, movement, skincare, sleep).
    • Weekly: One bigger self-care activity (a bath, a solo coffee date, a Sunday rest day).
    • Monthly: A full reset—declutter, refresh your self-care vision board, plan a maintenance day.

    Lazy Girl Tip: You don’t have to do everything—just enough to feel good.

    6. Create a “Backup” Self-Care Routine for Low-Energy Days

    Not every day is a high-energy, thriving girl-boss kind of day. Sometimes, you’re sick, burnt out, on your period, or just over it. That’s where your backup self-care routine comes in.

    On days when doing the bare minimum feels like too much, try this:

    • Drink any liquid (yes, coffee counts).
    • Take one deep breath before doomscrolling.
    • Lay in bed and do a 5-minute meditation (aka close your eyes and pretend to meditate).
    • Use a face mist or lip balm—hydration is hydration.
    • Get out of your PJ’s, put on comfy clothes and let that be enough.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Self-care doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to happen.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.

    Final Thoughts: Your Self-Care Routine, Your Rules

    You don’t need a 20-step self-care routine to take care of yourself. Just a few simple habits that fit into your life.

    Here’s what to do next:

    • Pick one self-care habit to try today.
    • Habit stack it onto something you already do.
    • Let go of the guilt—self-care is meant to help, not stress you out.

    Next up: How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours—because self-care should feel good, not like homework.

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  • Wellbeing

    The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women

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    In case you missed it, last time we covered lazy girl self-care—the kind that doesn’t involve a full self-care day or an elaborate self-care routine that takes hours. Because let’s be real, most of us are too busy, too tired, or just can’t be bothered to turn self-care into a full-time job.

    But what if I told you that you can feel better in just five minutes?

    No, really.

    This isn’t one of those “just wake up at 5 AM and journal for an hour” type of situations. These are quick, no-effort, dopamine-boosting, energy-lifting self-care hacks that fit into your life without requiring extra brainpower.

    Perfect if you’re a stay-at-home mom, a busy student or just someone who barely has time to breathe.

    So, if you’ve ever thought “I don’t have time for self-care”—this is for you.

    Table of Contents

    1. Do Absolutely Nothing for 5 Minutes

    Yes, this is real advice. Sometimes, the best self-care is just stopping for a second. No phone, no emails, no thinking about your endless to-do list. Just sit, breathe, and exist.

    Lazy Girl Tip: If your brain won’t shut up, try box breathing—inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4. It forces you to slow down and instantly lowers stress.

    Incorporating short mindfulness practices into your daily routine can significantly enhance your mental health. Even brief sessions can reduce stress, improve focus, and boost overall well-being. For more insights, check out this article.

    2. Hydrate (With a Fun Drink, Obviously)

    You already know that hydration = instant glow-up, but plain water can feel a bit… meh.

    Make it fun with flavoured water, herbal tea, or a classic: an iced matcha or collagen drink for a little extra self-care flex.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Get a cute water bottle with a straw—because somehow, drinking from a straw makes you weirdly more likely to actually hydrate.

    3. Quick Dopamine Hits for Instant Positive Energy

    Feeling meh? Hit your dopamine menu (or make one if you haven’t already—here’s how: Create Your Own Dopamine Menu).

    Need ideas? Here are instant mood-boosters:

    • Put on your favourite song and dance like no one’s watching.
    • Change into clean pyjamas for peak luxury vibes.
    • Scroll vision board photos
    • Blast a Friday night hype song, even if it’s Tuesday.
    • Sip on an aesthetic iced coffee and pretend you have your life together.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Self-care isn’t deep—sometimes, it’s just doing tiny things that make you smile.

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    4. The Ultimate 5-Minute Skin Refresh

    If you don’t have time for a full self-care routine, this is basic but effective:

    1. Cleanse – Because washing your face actually helps.
    2. Moisturise – Your skin needs it. Just trust me.
    3. SPF – Even if you’re inside. Even if it’s cloudy. Just do it.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Grab a tinted SPF moisturiser and kill two birds with one stone—hydration, sun protection, and a subtle glow-up in one step.

    5. Stretch Like a Cat (Seriously, It Works)

    Sitting all day? Feeling stiff? A 5-minute stretch can change your entire mood.

    • Neck rolls for tension relief.
    • Arm stretches to open up tight shoulders.
    • Leg stretch (or just point and flex your toes if you’re feeling extra lazy).

    Lazy Girl Tip: Do this while watching TV for an effortless health win.

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    6. The “I Don’t Have Time for Exercise” Workout

    No time? No problem. Try this zero-equipment, 5-minute movement boost:

    • March in place (1 min)
    • Wall sit (1 min)
    • Seated toe taps (1 min)
    • Standing stretch (1 min)
    • Deep breaths (1 min)

    Lazy Girl Tip: Strap on Bala Bangles for a sneaky resistance boost.

    7. Create a Quick Self-Care Vision Board

    Open Pinterest, Notes app, or an actual notebook and list things that make you feel good. Could be big goals or tiny things like “hot showers” or “scented candles.”

    Lazy Girl Tip: Save a Sunday reset inspo board with self-care ideas so you don’t have to think about it next time.

    8. The 5-Minute Shower Reset

    Some days, self-care is just taking a hot shower and pretending you’re in a spa.

    For an instant Korean shower routine glow-up, try:

    • Body scrub for baby-soft skin.
    • Hair mask for a little extra self-care flex.
    • Cold water blast at the end for a mood and circulation boost.

    Lazy Girl Tip: A luxury body scrub turns your basic shower into a full self-care lifestyle moment.

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    9. Write Down One Win from Today

    Doesn’t matter how small—just one thing you did right today.

    Even if it’s “I drank water” or “I got out of bed even though I didn’t want to”.

    Lazy Girl Tip: Keep a self-care bullet journal with tiny wins. It builds self-confidence and positive energy over time.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.

    Final Thoughts: Self-Care Hacks in 5 Minutes Flat

    You don’t need hours of free time or a full self-improvement plan to take care of yourself. Just 5 minutes here and there can change your mood, boost your energy, and make life feel a little easier.

    Here’s what to do next:

    • Pick one of the quick self-care hacks and try it today.
    • Save this self-care list for when you need a boost.
    • Let go of the guilt—5 minutes is enough.

    Next up: How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To—because self-care only works if it fits into your life!

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    7 Lazy Girl Self-Care Hacks: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort

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    Look, we all know self-care is important, but who actually has the time (or the energy) to spend hours on elaborate skincare routines, morning meditations, or journaling under the full moon while sipping matcha?

    Not me. And I’m guessing, not you either.

    Good news: self-care doesn’t have to be a full-time job. It doesn’t have to be fancy, expensive, or involve making a 45-minute trip to a yoga studio where everyone drinks green juice and pretends to love kale.

    It just has to be something that makes you feel a bit more human—and it needs to fit into your life without sucking up all your time and motivation.

    So, let’s talk about lazy girl self-care—the kind that actually works without requiring Olympic levels of effort. This is your boss motivation list to get yourself back on track, even if you’re a busy mom, a student, or just completely over everything.

    Table of Contents

    1. Drop the All-or-Nothing Mindset

    First things first: self-care isn’t an all-or-nothing game. You don’t need to have a perfect 10-step basic skin care routine or dedicate two hours a day to journaling your feelings.

    Some days, self-care is a full-blown DIY home spa night with face masks, fluffy dressing gowns, and candles that smell like a Scandinavian forest.

    Other days, it’s remembering to drink water before coffee so you don’t feel like a dehydrated raisin.

    Both count.

    If you need a little boost, make a self-care vision board with some vision board photos that inspire a healthy lifestyle—whether that’s a spa day, a stack of good books, or just a picture of someone drinking water like they actually enjoy it.

    Lazy Girl Rule #1: Doing something is always better than doing nothing.

    2. Hydration, But Make It Fun

    Water is boring. There, I said it.

    But dehydration makes you feel like a zombie, and it’s the easiest fix on this list.

    Here’s how to actually drink more water without forcing yourself:

    • Get a fancy water bottle. Weirdly motivating.
    • Add fruit or a splash of juice.
    • Set a phone reminder that says something dramatic like, “Drink water or perish.”

    And if you want to feel extra aesthetic, try making your own DIY self-care recipes for infused water. Hydration, but make it girly.

    Lazy Girl Rule #2: If you wouldn’t forget your morning coffee, don’t forget your water.

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    3. Sleep: The Most Underrated Form of Self-Care

    I know, I know. You’ll go to bed earlier… right after this one last scroll through TikTok and “how to get my life together” reels.

    But here’s the thing—sleep is self-care in its easiest form. You literally have to do nothing, and yet, it improves your mood, energy, skin, and metabolism without you lifting a finger.

    So, let’s fix your sleep hygiene the lazy way:

    • Dark room, no distractions. You don’t need blue light blasting into your retinas at midnight.
    • Cosy evening ritual. A hot drink, a book, or some comfort TV (Gilmore Girls, anyone?).
    • Ditch the guilt. Early bedtime equals elite-level self-care.

    If you struggle with sleep, a self-care routine before bed can make all the difference. Keep it basic—shower, skincare, no screens. Done.

    Lazy Girl Rule #3: Prioritise sleep like it’s your full-time job.

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    4. Do the Bare Minimum for Your Skin (and Feel Amazing Anyway)

    If your skincare routine currently consists of occasionally washing your face when you remember, congratulations, you’re already halfway there.

    You don’t need 17 serums or a bathroom shelf that looks like a science lab. Stick to the three essentials, and you’re golden:

    • Cleanser – Because washing your face with just water doesn’t count. Find one that suits your skin type and actually use it.
    • Moisturiser – Keeps your skin happy and hydrated. Bonus points if it makes you feel like a dewy goddess.
    • SPF – Non-negotiable. Protect your skin like it’s your full-time job. Get a moisturiser with SPF to combine two steps into one, or grab a tinted one for an easy summer glow. I love this one by CeraVe!

    Everything else—toners, serums, essences, and face mists—is optional. If you love them, great. If they overwhelm you, skip them.

    Basic doesn’t mean bad—it means efficient.

    Lazy Girl Rule #4: Keep it stupidly simple.

    5. Move Your Body (Without Calling It a Workout)

    Exercise is great. It boosts your mood, helps with stress, and gives you those smug I’ve got my life together vibes.

    But forcing yourself into hardcore workouts when you can barely be bothered to put socks on?

    Not happening.

    Let’s make movement fun and effortless:

    • Walk and talk. Ring your girlfriends, have a gossip, and rack up your steps.
    • Dance around the kitchen. Two songs equals five minutes of cardio. Sorted.
    • Lazy girl gym alternative. Stretch in bed, squat while brushing your teeth, do a couple of lunges while waiting for the kettle to boil.

    If you’re postpartum or having a sick day, gentle stretching can work wonders for feeling refreshed.

    Lazy Girl Rule #5: If it feels like a chore, you’re doing it wrong.

    6. Dopamine Boosts That Take Less Than a Minute

    Some days, self-care is just doing something tiny that makes your brain happy.

    Here are instant mood-boosters for when you feel meh:

    • Listen to an upbeat song you love.
    • Eat a piece of dark chocolate.
    • Step outside for fresh air and sunlight.
    • Watch a funny video or meme.
    • Try a new scent (essential oils, perfume, coffee beans).
    • Write down three things you’re grateful for.
    • Text a friend something kind or funny.
    • Do a quick 5-minute tidy-up.

    For an extra touch, add a self-care bullet journal to track these moments—nothing fancy, just a quick list of what makes you feel good.

    Want an easy way to boost your mood on demand? A dopamine menu is your personalised cheat sheet for instant feel-good moments. From quick wins to cosy self-care, it’s self-care without the overthinking. Learn how to create yours!

    Create Your Own Dopamine Menu: A Guide to Boosting Your Mood

    Lazy Girl Rule #6: Self-care doesn’t have to be deep. Sometimes, it’s just doing little things that make you smile.

    7. Treat Yourself Like You Would Your Best Friend

    You wouldn’t let your best friend run on three hours of sleep, eat crisps for dinner, and speak to herself like a trash goblin, so stop doing it to yourself.

    Talk to yourself like someone you love. Be nice to yourself. Give yourself permission to rest without guilt.

    Lazy Girl Rule #7: If you wouldn’t say it to your friend, don’t say it to yourself.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.

    Final Thoughts: Self-Care Shouldn’t Feel Like a Chore

    You don’t need an elaborate self-care lifestyle. You just need small, feel-good habits that fit effortlessly into your life.

    • Hydrate, but make it fun.
    • Sleep like it’s your job.
    • Move in ways that don’t feel like punishment.
    • Take dopamine hits where you can.
    • Be nice to yourself. Seriously.

    Self-care isn’t about being perfect. It’s about doing what you can, with what you have, without making life harder than it needs to be.

    And if you needed permission to embrace lazy girl self-care—you’ve got it. Now go drink some water and put on a face mask.

    You deserve it.

    Next up: The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women—because self-care doesn’t have to take hours to make a difference!

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    Can Pilates Help You Lose Weight? Here’s What You Need to Know

    Can Pilates Help You Lose Weight

    We’ve explored how Pilates transforms your mind and body in the last post (check it out here, if you haven’t already)—but let’s tackle the big question on everyone’s lips: Can Pilates help you lose weight?

    Whether you’re eyeing a long-term weight loss journey or just wondering if it’s worth swapping your current workout for a Pilates workout routine, the answer isn’t as straightforward as you might think.

    So, if you’re here because:

    • You want a fat-burning workout that won’t leave you gasping for air
    • You’d rather exercise at home than battle the gym bros for space
    • You want a sustainable plan that doesn’t involve punishing yourself
    • You’re sick of your arms and legs feeling like soggy noodles

    Then, my friend, Pilates is about to become your new best friend.

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    How Pilates Supports Fat Loss

    Look, Pilates isn’t the high-impact sweat-fest that HIIT is, but that doesn’t mean it won’t help you burn fat, build strength, and sculpt your body.

    In fact, it’s one of the best ways to tone up without wrecking your joints.

    1. Muscle = More Calories Burned

    Pilates builds lean muscle, especially in your arms, legs, and core. And what does more muscle mean? A faster metabolism.

    Even when you’re binge-watching Bake Off, your body will be burning more calories at rest—which is basically the dream, right?

    2. Fat-Burning Without the Impact

    You don’t need to jump around like a lunatic to burn fat. Pilates gets deep into those muscles, making them work harder for longer, which boosts fat loss over time.

    3. Stress Less, Burn More

    Anxiety and stress send cortisol levels soaring, and cortisol = stubborn belly fat. Pilates helps calm your nervous system, meaning less stress, better sleep, and a happier metabolism.

    💡 Pro Tip: Want even more fat-burning power? Add in a daily walk—Pilates and walking go together like tea and biscuits.

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    Why Nutrition is the Real MVP of Weight Loss

    I hate to break it to you, but even the best Pilates plan won’t out-train a diet of takeaways and biscuits.

    Pilates can sculpt your arms and legs to perfection, but if you’re smashing six packets of crisps a day, it’s not gonna work miracles.

    1. Weight Loss is 80% Food, 20% Exercise

    You could be doing wall Pilates every day, but if you’re eating more calories then you’re burning, the weight won’t shift.

    2. Balanced Eating = Better Energy

    Fill your plate with:

    • Lean proteins (chicken, tofu, fish) to keep you full
    • Healthy fats (avocado, nuts, olive oil) for hormone balance
    • Complex carbs (quinoa, sweet potatoes, brown rice) for sustained energy
    • Loads of veggies (because, obviously)

    3. Hydration is Key

    Drink your water! Dehydration mimics hunger, so if you’re constantly feeling snacky, you might just be thirsty.

    The Sneaky Ways Pilates Helps You Lose Weight (Without You Noticing)

    1. It’s Easy to Stick With

    Because it’s low-impact and actually fun, Pilates doesn’t feel like punishment. That means you’re more likely to keep doing it, which is half the battle when it comes to weight loss.

    2. It Builds Confidence

    Ever nailed a wall Pilates move that you never thought you could do? That buzz carries over into every part of your life.

    Suddenly, you feel stronger, more capable, and more in control—which means you’re more likely to stay active and make healthier choices.

    3. It Gets You Moving More

    Pilates doesn’t stop when the workout ends. It improves posture, mobility, and strength, which means you’re more active throughout the day—without even thinking about it.

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    Types of Pilates for Fat Loss

    1. Mat Pilates

    Brilliant for home workouts, focusing on core strength, flexibility, and toning. Perfect if you want a no-fuss, effective plan.

    2. Reformer Pilates

    If you’ve got access to a reformer machine, this takes things up a notch. It’s great for sculpting legs, arms, and core while burning more calories.

    3. Wall Pilates

    One of the best options for people who don’t have much space at home. Uses body weight and the wall for resistance—absolute game-changer.

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    Fat-Burning Pilates Routine (30 Minutes)

    If you’re ready to fire up your metabolism and tone your arms, legs, and core, try this 30-minute Pilates routine designed for maximum fat burning. No fancy equipment needed—just a mat, a wall, and your bodyweight!

    Warm-Up (5 Minutes)

    • Standing Roll-Downs (8 reps) – Loosens up the spine and improves flexibility.
    • Cat-Cow Stretch (8 reps) – Warms up the back and preps the core.
    • Side-to-Side Twists (10 reps) – Activates the obliques and improves mobility.

    Main Workout (20 Minutes)

    Core & Fat-Burning Boost

    • The Hundred (1 minute) – Classic core move to fire up the abs and boost circulation.
    • Wall Pilates Leg Lifts (10 reps per leg) – Strengthens the lower body and tones the legs.
    • Plank to Knee Tucks (12 reps) – Works the arms, core, and legs while keeping the heart rate up.

    Arms & Legs Sculpting

    • Pilates Push-Ups (10 reps) – Strengthens the arms and chest without bulking up.
    • Wall Squat Hold (30 seconds) – A killer move for the legs and glutes.
    • Side-Lying Leg Circles (10 reps per leg) – Tightens and tones the thighs and glutes.

    Fat-Burning Flow

    • Bridge Lifts (15 reps) – Engages the glutes and core for a full lower-body burn.
    • Roll-Up to Standing (8 reps) – Combines strength and flexibility for full-body engagement.
    • Bicycle Crunches (20 reps) – A dynamic move to shred the abs and burn calories.

    Cool Down (5 Minutes)

    • Seated Forward Fold (30 seconds) – Stretches out the hamstrings and back.
    • Child’s Pose (30 seconds) – Relaxes the spine and hips.
    • Deep Breathing (1 minute) – Helps lower cortisol levels and promote mental health benefits.

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    So, Can Pilates Help You Lose Weight?

    Here’s the real talk: Pilates won’t torch fat like a HIIT class, but it will help you build strength, boost your metabolism, and feel amazing in your own skin.

    If you:

    • Eat well and stay consistent
    • Move daily
    • Reduce stress (bye-bye, cortisol spikes)
    • Stick with Pilates long enough to see changes

    Then yes, Pilates can absolutely help you lose weight—and keep it off.

    💡 Final Pro Tip: Make Pilates a regular part of your routine, and you’ll see results that last. No crash diets. No fads. Just a strong, healthy, confident you.

    Now, go roll out your Pilates mat, grab a water bottle, and get to it. You’ve got this.

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    How Pilates Transforms Your Core Strength

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    In the last post, we weighed the pros and cons of Pilates vs. yoga (Check that out here). If you’ve decided to stick with Pilates (great choice, by the way!), then you’re about to unlock its best-kept secret: core strength.

    Yep, those precise movements and controlled breathing are about to work wonders on your middle, giving you a strong, stable foundation for everything you do—whether that’s carrying shopping bags, sitting at your desk with better posture, or finally nailing that Pilates roll-up without wobbling.

    So, in this post, we’ll explore:

    • What core strength actually is (spoiler: it’s more than just abs).
    • How Pilates builds your core like a pro.
    • The real-life perks of a stronger core.
    • What results you can expect over time.

    Ready to feel the burn (and love it)? Let’s dive in.

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    What is Core Strength?

    When we talk about the core, it’s not just about getting six-pack abs (although that’s a nice bonus). Your core is the powerhouse of your body, made up of multiple muscles that support your spine, stabilise your body, and keep you moving efficiently.

    Key core muscles include:

    • The rectus abdominis – The one responsible for that “six-pack” look.
    • The transverse abdominis – A deep core muscle that acts like a built-in corset, keeping everything tight and stable.
    • The obliques – The muscles that help with twisting and side-bending movements.
    • The erector spinae – These run along your spine and play a huge role in posture and back support.

    A strong core isn’t just for show—it improves balance, enhances posture, and reduces the risk of injury. Think of it as your body’s internal scaffolding, helping with everything from lifting groceries to smashing your Pilates workouts with ease.

    How Pilates Builds Core Strength

    Pilates doesn’t just target your core—it makes it the star of the show.

    • Deep Engagement: Each move focuses on activating your deep abdominal muscles.
    • Controlled Movements: No rushing here! The slow, deliberate pace ensures you’re working your core with precision.
    • Variety of Exercises: From classics like The Hundred to planks and pelvic curls, Pilates serves up plenty of core-centric challenges.
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    Two core-focused exercises to try:

    1. The Hundred:
      • Lie on your back with legs in tabletop position.
      • Lift your head and shoulders, extend your arms, and pulse them up and down.
      • Inhale for 5 pulses, exhale for 5, repeating until you reach 100.
    2. Plank:
      • Get into a push-up position, hands under shoulders, body in a straight line.
      • Hold for 20–30 seconds, focusing on engaging your core.

    Pro Tip: Always think about pulling your belly button towards your spine. It’s the secret sauce for that deep burn.

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    Everyday Benefits of a Strong Core

    The benefits of a strong core go beyond your mat:

    1. Reduced Back Pain: Say goodbye to those nagging aches. A strong core supports your spine, taking pressure off your lower back.
    2. Better Posture: No more slouching! Pilates helps you stand taller and look more confident.
    3. Improved Balance: Whether you’re walking on uneven ground or trying wall Pilates exercises, a strong core keeps you steady.
    4. Functional Fitness: From bending to pick up your toddler to reaching for the top shelf, core strength makes daily tasks easier.

    Results You Can Expect Over Time

    Consistency is key, but here’s what you can look forward to:

    • Week 1–2 – Expect some wobbling—your muscles are waking up and figuring out how to activate properly.
    • Week 3–4 – You’ll notice better control during movements like roll-ups or planks, and daily activities may start to feel easier.
    • Month 2+ – Improved posture, reduced back pain, and a noticeable boost in core strength. You may even feel stronger in other workouts, too.
    • Long-Term – A rock-solid foundation that enhances everything from Pilates and strength training to simply moving better in everyday life.

    💡 Pro Tip: Track your progress by jotting down how your body feels after each session or taking occasional photos. The little wins add up fast!

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    Conclusion

    Pilates transforms your core strength through mindful movement, controlled exercises, and consistent practice.

    It’s not just about looking good (though the results don’t hurt!); it’s about building a strong, stable body that supports you in every way—whether you’re flowing through a Pilates class, chasing after kids, or just sitting comfortably without aches and pains.

    So, keep showing up, keep engaging that core, and enjoy the journey.

    Your future self will thank you.

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    Studies

    • Core stability is essential for maintaining functional movement and preventing injury. Pilates is particularly effective in engaging deep core muscles, such as the transverse abdominis, which acts like a built-in corset to stabilise the spine (Joyce & Kotler, 2017).
    • Pilates exercises improve core activation and strength, particularly benefiting those with musculoskeletal conditions (Cuddy & Gaskell, 2019).
    • Research shows that Pilates helps improve core muscle activation and supports spinal stability. It is particularly effective in engaging abdominal and back muscles through controlled movements (Franks, Thwaites, & Morris, 2023).
    • A 12-week Pilates intervention led to improvements in core stability, though effects on flexibility and body composition were limited (Pumpa et al., 2015).
    • Reduced Back Pain: Studies indicate that Pilates is effective in reducing chronic low back pain by strengthening core muscles and improving postural control (Franks, Thwaites, & Morris, 2023).
    • Better Posture: Pilates training has been linked to improved postural control and stability, particularly in older adults, making it a great addition to fitness routines (Smith & Smith, 2005).
    • Improved Balance: Pilates-based training enhances core stability and balance, making everyday activities easier and reducing fall risk (Thakkar et al., 2021).
    • Short-Term Gains: A four-week Pilates programme improved core strength and flexibility, even though body composition remained unchanged (Raghavendra, 2018).
    • Long-Term Benefits: Regular Pilates practice leads to significant improvements in core muscle strength, postural stability, and movement control, particularly in populations such as dancers and athletes (Wang, 2023).
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    Rise and Shine: 19 Peaceful Habits for a Calm Start to Your Day

    Let’s be honest—mornings can be an absolute nightmare. You wake up groggy, the alarm feels like it’s screamed at you, and before you know it, you’re knee-deep in chaos with no time for any peaceful habits. Sound familiar? Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

    But here’s the thing—how you spend those first few hours sets the tone for your entire day. Want to feel like you’ve got your life together (even if you don’t)?

    Let’s chat about creating a calming morning routine that’ll have you starting your day fresh, focused, and fabulous.

    By the time you’re done with these 19 peaceful habits, you’ll not only wake up happy, but you’ll be mastering some serious positive lifestyle changes. No toxic habits allowed here.

    Ready? Let’s crack on.

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    Calm Your Mind

    1. Meditate or Breathe (Like You Actually Mean It)

    Before you reach for your phone, try this: sit up, close your eyes, and take a few deep breaths. Feel the calm wash over you. Five minutes. That’s all it takes to clear the morning fog and train your mind to be positive.

    2. Gratitude Journaling

    Grab a notebook and scribble down three things you’re grateful for. No pressure for big stuff—your coffee counts. It’s all about shifting your mindset. Daily journal prompts can really help with this one.

    3. Morning Affirmations

    Repeat after me: “I am a total legend.” Okay, maybe not that exactly, but affirmations like “Today is a good day to crush my goals” or “I deserve to feel calm and happy” will do the trick.

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    4. Read or Listen to Something Inspiring

    Whether it’s a few pages of a yoga blog or an audiobook on positive daily habits, this is your time to soak up some good vibes. Forget doom-scrolling; it’s all about fuelling your brain with positivity.

    5. Visualise Your Day

    Take a minute to picture how you want your day to go. Feeling fresh, smashing your goals, maybe even a cheeky win at work. This little trick helps you become a more positive person without even realising it.

    PEACEFUL HABITS

    Energise Your Body

    6. Gentle Stretching

    Look, you don’t have to be a yoga guru to enjoy a good stretch. A few simple moves to wake up your muscles and loosen your joints will do wonders. You’ll feel like you’ve had a mini spa day—no lie.

    7. Yoga or Light Exercise

    Speaking of yoga, even 10 minutes of a quick flow can work magic on your energy levels. Prefer something else? A brisk walk will do the job. It’s all about good healthy habits for your body.

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    8. Hydrate Like a Boss

    Before you even think about caffeine, drink a big glass of water. Add a squeeze of lemon if you’re feeling fancy. Staying hydrated is one of those life-changing habits that feels small but makes a massive difference.

    9. Nourish Your Body

    Breakfast doesn’t have to be fancy, but it does need to be wholesome. Oats, yoghurt, fruit—keep it simple and satisfying. Mindful eating = a calming start to your day.

    10. Splash Cold Water on Your Face

    Sounds dramatic, but trust me, it works. Instant refresh. You’ll feel like you’ve got your life together, even if you’re still in your PJs.

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    Feed Your Soul

    11. Open a Window or Step Outside

    Fresh air and sunlight? Absolute game-changers. Even if it’s a quick moment, it’ll lift your mood like nothing else. Plus, it’s a subtle way to practise self-love in your morning routine.

    12. Embrace the Silence

    Turn off the noise—no music, no podcasts, no distractions. Just you and the quiet. It’s weirdly soothing and exactly what you need to centre yourself.

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    13. Reflect in Your Journal

    Write down what’s on your mind. It can be anything—dreams, worries, or just a to-do list. This is your time to declutter your brain.

    14. Listen to Nature Sounds or Soft Music

    Set the mood with a calming playlist or ambient sounds. Ocean waves, chirping birds—whatever makes you feel zen.

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    Stay Grounded

    15. Set a Key Intention for the Day

    Pick one thing you really want to achieve. Just one. It keeps you focused and stops the overwhelm.

    16. Plan Your To-Do List

    Jot down 3-5 priorities. Keep it realistic, not a never-ending scroll of impossible tasks. This habit is a total sanity-saver.

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    17. Tidy Up Your Space

    A quick five-minute tidy in the morning can make all the difference. A clutter-free space = a clutter-free mind.

    18. Keep Your Phone Off (For Now)

    Seriously, ditch the screens for the first hour. Replace scrolling with simple peaceful habits like journaling, stretching, or sipping tea.

    19. Create a Morning Ritual Around Your Drink

    Speaking of tea (or coffee), make this a mindful moment. Sip slowly, breathe deeply, and just be. It’s a self-care morning routine in itself.

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    Conclusion

    There you have it—19 peaceful habits to build your perfect morning routine.

    You don’t need to do them all (you’re not superhuman!), but picking a few and sticking to them can totally upgrade your life. Check out my next post on creating a morning routine based on your mood here.

    Start small, stay consistent, and watch your mornings transform from chaos to calm. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about progress.

    So, here’s to positive changes, fresh starts, and mornings that make you feel unstoppable. You’ve got this!

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    10 Easy Pilates Poses for Beginners to Master Today

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    OK, now that you’re avoiding the classic beginner mistakes (like skipping warm-ups or holding your breath—discussed in this post), it’s time to take things up a notch. Pilates is all about mindful movement, and mastering a few foundational poses can set the stage for long-term success.

    In this post, I’ll guide you through 10 beginner-friendly poses that you can practice today. These moves will build your strength, improve flexibility, and leave you feeling like the star of your own Pilates workout routine.

    Let’s get cracking, shall we?

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    Pose 1: The Hundred

    What it does: Warms up your body, boosts circulation, and engages your core.
    How to do it:

    1. Lie on your back with your legs in a tabletop position (knees bent at 90 degrees).
    2. Lift your head, shoulders, and arms slightly off the mat.
    3. Extend your arms alongside your body and pulse them up and down.
    4. Inhale for 5 pulses, then exhale for 5 pulses. Repeat 10 times (hence “The Hundred”).
      Modification: Keep your head on the mat if your neck feels strained.
      Pro Tip: Focus on small, controlled movements for maximum benefit.

    Pose 2: Roll-Up

    What it does: Strengthens your core and improves spinal flexibility.
    How to do it:

    1. Lie flat on your back with your legs straight and arms extended overhead.
    2. Slowly lift your arms, head, and torso, reaching forward towards your toes.
    3. Roll back down with control, one vertebra at a time.
      Modification: Bend your knees slightly if your hamstrings feel tight.
      Pro Tip: Imagine peeling your spine off the mat like a sticker for a smooth movement.

    Pose 3: Single-Leg Stretch

    What it does: Strengthens your abs and promotes coordination.
    How to do it:

    1. Lie on your back and bring both knees to your chest.
    2. Lift your head, neck, and shoulders off the mat.
    3. Extend one leg at a time, alternating, while holding the other knee.
      Modification: Keep your head on the mat if your neck feels strained.
      Pro Tip: Engage your core to keep your lower back pressed into the mat.

    Pose 4: Plank

    What it does: Builds core strength and improves stability.
    How to do it:

    1. Start in a push-up position with your hands under your shoulders.
    2. Keep your body in a straight line from head to heels.
    3. Hold for 20–30 seconds, gradually increasing over time.
      Modification: Drop to your knees for a half-plank.
      Pro Tip: Keep your neck neutral—don’t let your head droop or crane forward.

    Pose 5: Pelvic Curl

    What it does: Strengthens your glutes and hamstrings while mobilising your spine.
    How to do it:

    1. Lie on your back with knees bent and feet flat on the mat.
    2. Lift your hips towards the ceiling, one vertebra at a time.
    3. Pause at the top, then slowly lower back down.
      Modification: Place a pillow under your back for extra support.
      Pro Tip: Press evenly through your feet to keep the movement balanced.

    Pose 6: Spine Stretch Forward

    What it does: Improves posture and stretches the spine and hamstrings.
    How to do it:

    1. Sit tall with your legs extended and slightly wider than hip-width apart.
    2. Extend your arms forward at shoulder height.
    3. Exhale as you reach forward, rounding your spine.
    4. Inhale to return to an upright position.
      Modification: Bend your knees slightly if your hamstrings are tight.
      Pro Tip: Imagine stretching over a beach ball to keep the movement fluid.

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    Pose 7: Side-Lying Leg Lifts

    What it does: Tones your hips and thighs while improving balance.
    How to do it:

    1. Lie on one side with legs stacked and head resting on your arm.
    2. Lift your top leg towards the ceiling, then lower it back down.
      Modification: Bend your bottom leg for extra stability.
      Pro Tip: Keep your core engaged to avoid wobbling.

    Pose 8: Cat-Cow Stretch

    What it does: Warms up the spine and improves flexibility.
    How to do it:

    1. Start on all fours with wrists under shoulders and knees under hips.
    2. Inhale as you arch your back (Cow Pose).
    3. Exhale as you round your back (Cat Pose).
      Modification: Place a towel under your knees for added comfort.
      Pro Tip: Move slowly, syncing your breath with the motion.

    Pose 9: Child’s Pose

    What it does: Stretches the lower back and promotes relaxation.
    How to do it:

    1. Kneel on the mat with your big toes touching and knees apart.
    2. Sit back on your heels and extend your arms forward, lowering your torso.
      Modification: Place a pillow under your hips if sitting back is uncomfortable.
      Pro Tip: Use this as a rest position whenever you need during your workout.

    Pose 10: Swan Prep

    What it does: Strengthens your lower back and promotes spinal mobility.
    How to do it:

    1. Lie on your stomach with your hands under your shoulders.
    2. Lift your chest slightly off the mat, keeping your elbows bent.
    3. Lower back down with control.
      Modification: Keep your chest lower if you feel strain in your back.
      Pro Tip: Imagine lengthening your spine as you lift.

    Beginner Pilates Workout (20–30 Minutes)

    Here’s an example beginner-friendly workout using all of those Pilates poses. It’s designed to flow smoothly, helping you build strength and flexibility while keeping things accessible:

    Warm-Up (5 minutes)

    • Cat-Cow Stretch: 5 full breaths (inhale into Cow, exhale into Cat).
    • Child’s Pose: Hold for 30 seconds, focusing on deep breathing.

    Core Activation (5 minutes)

    • The Hundred: Perform 10 sets of pulses (inhale for 5, exhale for 5).
      (Modification: Keep your head on the mat if needed.)
    • Roll-Up: 5 slow and controlled repetitions.
      (Modification: Bend your knees slightly if hamstrings are tight.)

    Strength and Stability (10 minutes)

    • Single-Leg Stretch: 10 reps per leg (slow and controlled).
      (Modification: Keep your head on the mat to avoid neck strain.)
    • Plank: Hold for 20–30 seconds.
      (Modification: Drop to knees if needed.)
    • Pelvic Curl: 8–10 reps, lifting hips slowly and lowering with control.

    Flexibility and Mobility (5–7 minutes)

    • Spine Stretch Forward: 5 reps, moving slowly to stretch the hamstrings and spine.
      (Modification: Bend your knees slightly.)
    • Swan Prep: 5–8 reps, lifting your chest gently and lowering with control.
      (Modification: Keep the lift small to avoid strain.)
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    Finisher (3 minutes)

    • Side-Lying Leg Lifts: 10 reps per side, focusing on slow and steady movements.
      (Modification: Bend your bottom leg for support.)

    Cool-Down (2–3 minutes)

    • Child’s Pose: Hold for 30 seconds, focusing on your breath.
    • Cat-Cow Stretch: 3–5 slow cycles to release tension.

    Pro Tip: Move with intention— All Pilates poses are about mindful, controlled movements. Focus on your breath and form for maximum benefit!

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    Conclusion

    And there you have it—a complete Pilates poses perfect for beginners! By combining these foundational poses into a simple routine, you’ll not only strengthen your core but also improve your flexibility, posture, and overall body awareness.

    Pilates isn’t just about physical movement; it’s about connecting your breath, mind, and body to feel more aligned and in control.

    Whether you’re squeezing this in before a busy day or winding down in the evening, these poses lay the groundwork for a solid Pilates practice.

    The best part? You can adjust the intensity, pace, or duration as you progress, making this workout grow with you.

    Remember, consistency is key! Even a few minutes a day can make a big difference over time. So roll out your mat, breathe deeply, and enjoy the journey. You’ve got this!

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    5 Common Pilates Mistakes Beginners Make (and How to Avoid Them)

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    OK, you’re officially on your Pilates journey—go you! In the last post, we chatted about setting up your space, choosing comfy gear (because no one needs leggings rolling down mid-stretch), and trying out some beginner Pilates exercises at home (Check that post out here!) But before you start envisioning those dreamy Pilates results, let’s make sure you’re not falling into the classic Pilates mistakes that can hold beginners back. Pilates is about mindful movement, not racing through poses like you’re in a TikTok challenge.

    In this post, I’ll break down:

    • 5 common Pilates mistakes beginners make.
    • How to avoid them and set yourself up for success.

    Let’s get stuck in, shall we?

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    Mistake 1: Skipping Warm-Ups

    Why it’s a problem: Pilates is a strength workout! Imagine jumping straight into a weight workout without giving your muscles a heads-up, Pilates is exactly the same. Skipping warm-ups can lead to stiffness, poor performance, and even injury.

    What to do instead: A good warm-up gets your blood flowing, loosens up tight spots, and preps your body for movement. Try these:

    • Cat-Cow Stretch: Perfect for warming up your spine.
    • Wall Pilates Exercises: Easy moves like wall bridges or wall squats can activate key muscle groups.
    • Breathing Practice: Spend a minute focusing on deep, controlled breaths.

    Mistake 2: Poor Form

    Why it’s a problem: Pilates is all about alignment, and bad form can do more harm than good. Plus, it’s the secret to that lean, toned Pilates body we’re all after.

    What to do instead: Focus on quality over quantity. A few tips:

    • Keep your core engaged—imagine pulling your belly button towards your spine.
    • For moves like the Roll-Up, avoid yanking your neck or using momentum.
    • Use a mirror or record yourself to check alignment, especially for exercises like leg lifts or Pilates bar workouts.

    Pro Tip: If you’re feeling wobbly, look for beginner-friendly online Pilates tutorials. They often highlight common Pilates mistakes and how to fix them.

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    Mistake 3: Holding Your Breath

    Why it’s a problem: Controlled breathing is the backbone of Pilates (literally and figuratively). Holding your breath limits oxygen flow and leaves you feeling fatigued faster.

    What to do instead: Breathe like a Pilates pro:

    • Inhale through your nose as you prepare for a movement.
    • Exhale through your mouth as you execute it.
    • Example: During a Pilates bar workout, exhale as you push the bar away and inhale as you bring it back.

    Pro Tip: Syncing your breath with movement also helps you stay focused—great for tackling a 21-day fitness challenge workout plan or glow-up challenge.

    Mistake 4: Rushing Through Exercises

    Why it’s a problem: Pilates isn’t a race. Fast, jerky movements can throw off your form and cheat your muscles out of the full benefit.

    What to do instead: Think slow, steady, and controlled.

    • When doing moves like the Wall Bridge, take your time lifting and lowering your hips.
    • Focus on feeling each muscle engage—especially your core, glutes, and thighs.
    • Remember, it’s about quality over quantity. Ten mindful reps beat twenty sloppy ones any day.
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    Mistake 5: Inconsistency

    Why it’s a problem: Pilates is a practice, and like any skill, it takes consistency to see progress. Skipping sessions won’t get you that dreamy Pilates body or those wall Pilates results.

    What to do instead: Make Pilates part of your routine:

    • Set a schedule: Pencil it in like a hot date. Whether it’s three times a week or a quick 15-minute session daily, show up for yourself.
    • Use free workout plans: Plenty of easy home workouts for beginners are available online. Find one you love and stick to it!
    • Track your progress: Whether it’s a 1-month glow-up challenge or a core challenge 30-day plan, tracking your wins keeps you motivated.

    Pro Tip: If life gets busy, even a quick stretch or mindful movement session can keep the habit alive.

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    Conclusion

    Pilates mistakes happen, but now you know how to dodge them like a pro. Warm up, focus on form, breathe deeply, take it slow, and stay consistent.

    Follow these tips, and you’ll be well on your way to smashing your fitness goals and reaping the full benefits of Pilates for your body and mind.

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    Studies

    Warming up before exercise, including Pilates, improves muscle flexibility and prepares the body for activity, potentially enhancing performance and reducing injury risk (Fradkin, Zazryn, & Smoliga, 2010).

    Specific warm-up routines, such as dynamic stretches, can reduce sensations of muscle stiffness and soreness, making movements more comfortable and controlled (Reisman, Walsh, & Proske, 2005).

    Poor form during exercises, like Pilates, can negate benefits and increase the risk of harm, highlighting the importance of alignment and proper guidance (Kloubec, 2010).

    Controlled breathing during Pilates enhances oxygen delivery and reduces fatigue, aligning with the emphasis on mindful breathing practices (Mazzarino, Kerr, & Wajswelner, 2015).

    Slow and steady movements in Pilates promote better muscle engagement and prevent errors from rushed exercises, supporting effective strength building (Guimarães et al., 2012).

    Consistent Pilates practice leads to noticeable improvements in flexibility, strength, and overall fitness, even at lower frequencies like once a week (Tolnai et al., 2016).

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    How to Start Pilates at Home: A Beginner’s Guide

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    You’ve heard the buzz about Pilates—how it tones your body, improves your posture, and leaves you feeling as zen as a weekend yoga retreat. Maybe you’ve even caught a glimpse of those Wall Pilates before and after pictures and thought, “Could that be me?” Spoiler: yes, it absolutely could.

    Last time, we had a chat about what Pilates is good for, the basics, and why this low-impact workout at home is worth a go. (Missed it? Go have a peek here—it’s the perfect primer for getting started!)

    Now, whether you’re aiming for a Pilates body, starting on a 1-month glow-up challenge, or just looking for a way to move your body that feels good, you’re in the right place.

    So, in this post, I’ll discuss:

    • What you’ll need to start.
    • Setting up your space.
    • Beginner-friendly routines to try.
    • Tips to stay consistent (because Netflix will tempt you, but Pilates is worth it).

    Ready? Let’s roll up our sleeves (or should I say, roll out our mats?) and get you started on your first Pilates workout at home.

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    What You’ll Need to Start

    First things first, you don’t need a fancy studio or top-tier gear. That’s the beauty of Pilates at home.

    • Mat: A simple exercise mat will do. Bonus points if it’s a nice thick one, because some of us have back problems!
    • Comfortable clothes: Think leggings and a snug top. Wondering what to wear to Pilates? Anything that lets you move freely and doesn’t ride up when you’re in those elegant Pilates poses.
    • Optional props: If you’re feeling fancy, grab a resistance band, small weights, or even a Pilates bar. These can level up your Pilates workout routine, but they’re not essentials for beginners.

    Setting Up Your Space

    Your Pilates space needs to be as zen as you are about to feel.

    1. Distraction-free zone: Choose a corner where you won’t be interrupted by kids, cats, or the latest cliffhanger on your favourite show.
    2. Lighting and ventilation: Natural light and fresh air are your best friends here. Open a window or pop on a soft lamp for that mindful movement vibe.
    3. Atmosphere: Make it cosy! A candle, a playlist, or even a quote from Joseph Pilates himself pinned to the wall can set the tone.

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    Beginner-Friendly Pilates Routines

    Let’s get you moving! Here’s a beginner-friendly Pilates workout routine to ease you into the practice.

    These moves are simple, effective, and can be done in your cosy at-home setup. Pop on some soothing tunes and let’s go!

    1. The Roll-Up

    • What it does: Strengthens your core and improves flexibility in your spine.
    • How to do it:
      1. Lie flat on your back, legs straight and arms extended overhead, palms facing the ceiling.
      2. Engage your core, exhaling as you slowly lift your arms, head, and torso off the mat.
      3. Reach forward towards your toes, keeping your movements slow and controlled.
      4. Inhale as you roll back down to your starting position, one vertebra at a time.
      5. Repeat 8–10 times.

    Keep your movements steady and focus on using your abs rather than momentum.

    2. Wall Bridge

    • What it does: Activates your glutes, hamstrings, and core while improving pelvic stability.
    • How to do it:
      1. Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet pressed against the wall at a 90-degree angle.
      2. Press through your heels and lift your hips towards the ceiling, engaging your glutes and core.
      3. Pause at the top, squeezing your glutes for 2–3 seconds.
      4. Lower your hips back to the mat with control.
      5. Repeat 8–12 times.

    Keep your upper back and shoulders relaxed on the mat for proper alignment.

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    3. Cat-Cow Stretch

    • What it does: Warms up your spine and promotes flexibility.
    • How to do it:
      1. Start on all fours, with your wrists aligned under your shoulders and knees under your hips.
      2. Inhale as you arch your back, lifting your tailbone and head towards the ceiling (Cow Pose).
      3. Exhale as you round your back, tucking your chin to your chest and drawing your belly button towards your spine (Cat Pose).
      4. Alternate between Cat and Cow for 6–8 breaths.

    Pro Tip: Move slowly and sync your breath with each motion for a calming, mindful flow.

    4. The Hundred (Modified)

    • What it does: Boosts circulation and strengthens your abs.
    • How to do it:
      1. Lie on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on the mat.
      2. Lift your head, shoulders, and arms slightly off the ground, keeping your gaze towards your knees.
      3. Extend your arms alongside your body and pulse them up and down.
      4. Inhale for 5 pulses and exhale for 5 pulses, repeating 10 times (hence, “The Hundred”).

    If you feel any neck strain, keep your head resting on the mat.

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    5. Side-Lying Leg Lifts

    • What it does: Strengthens your hips and thighs while improving balance.
    • How to do it:
      1. Lie on one side with your legs stacked and your head resting on your arm.
      2. Lift your top leg towards the ceiling, keeping it straight and controlled.
      3. Lower it back down with control, keeping your core engaged.
      4. Repeat 10–12 times on each side.

    Don’t let your hips roll back or forward—imagine balancing a teacup on your hip for stability.

    6. Spine Stretch Forward

    • What it does: Improves posture and flexibility in your spine and hamstrings.
    • How to do it:
      1. Sit tall with your legs extended straight in front of you, slightly wider than hip-width apart.
      2. Extend your arms forward at shoulder height, palms facing down.
      3. Inhale to sit up even taller, then exhale as you stretch forward, reaching for your toes.
      4. Pause, then roll back up to your starting position.
      5. Repeat 6–8 times.

    Keep your movements smooth and focus on lengthening through your spine.

    Quick Routine Plan

    1. Warm-Up: Cat-Cow Stretch (6–8 breaths)
    2. Core Activation: The Roll-Up (8–10 reps)
    3. Glutes & Thighs: Wall Bridge (8–12 reps)
    4. Circulation Boost: The Hundred (10 cycles)
    5. Lower Body Strength: Side-Lying Leg Lifts (10–12 reps per side)
    6. Flexibility: Spine Stretch Forward (6–8 reps)

    This simple at-home Pilates workout is perfect for beginners and works as a foundation for progressing into more advanced moves.

    Stick with it, and you’ll start seeing those results—hello, Pilates body!

    Tips for Staying Consistent

    Consistency is the secret sauce to glowing Pilates results. Here’s how to stick with it:

    • Set a schedule: Pencil in your Pilates time like it’s a hot date with yourself.
    • Online guidance: Use apps or YouTube for free workout plans.
    • Track your progress: Keep a journal of your routines and reflect on how you feel after each session. Those Pilates workout benefits will keep you coming back.

    More Pilates Tips & Workouts You’ll Love

    Ready to take your Pilates journey to the next level? Check out these must-read posts for beginner-friendly workouts, expert tips, and game-changing Pilates advice to help you build strength, improve flexibility, and stay consistent!

    Conclusion

    See? Starting Pilates at home is as easy as pie. With minimal equipment, a bit of space, and a sprinkle of determination, you’ll be smashing those beginner Pilates exercises and feeling the glow-up in no time.

    And here’s the cherry on top: Starting is simple, but every beginner faces a few wobbles (literally and figuratively).

    In the next post, we’ll chat about the common pitfalls newbies face and how to dodge them like a pro.

    So, grab your mat, and let’s get cracking. Your future self (and your core) will thank you!

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    Studies

    Pilates is effective for improving muscular and postural strength (Smartplay, 2007).

    It improves skeletal muscle mass, flexibility, balance, core strength, body awareness, and reduces negative affect even with low-frequency practice (Tolnai et al., 2016).

    Pilates enhances neuromotor fitness and balance in older adults, making it a suitable exercise modality for the elderly (Cancela et al., 2014).

    A 12-week Pilates program significantly improves abdominal endurance, hamstring flexibility, and upper-body muscular endurance (Kloubec, 2010).

    Pilates training improves dynamic balance and posture in healthy adults (Johnson et al., 2007).

    Practising Pilates enhances flexibility, strength, balance, and body awareness, benefiting both mental and physical health (Nae, 2015).

    A home-based Pilates program effectively improves core strength, muscular endurance, and posture (Donahoe-Fillmore et al., 2007).

    Pilates is effective for enhancing arm-trunk posture, core control, and stabilising the spine during movements (Emery et al., 2010).

    Pilates contributes to improved balance, trunk strength, and functional autonomy in the elderly population (Işık & Başar, 2021).

    Mat and Reformer Pilates improve balance, core stability, and quality of life in patients with multiple sclerosis (Bulguroglu et al., 2017).