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  • Night Journal Prompts: End Your Day with Positive Thoughts

    Introduction

    Earlier this year, I was going through a really hard postpartum period, I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and was suffering from insomnia as a result. My nights felt endless, and my days were a fog of exhaustion and overwhelm. I sought professional help for this and eventually started to feel better. However, bedtime still brought anxiety, and I would panic about not being able to fall asleep. To combat this, I began to work on my sleep hygiene—avoiding blue light, drinking herbal teas, using pillow spray, etc. And another small addition to my routine was night journaling and practising gratitude. Quickly, I realised that focusing on positive things in my life before bed helped me calm down and had a significant impact on my mental health. So in this post, I want to share my night journal prompts – in the hopes that they may help you as well.

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    The Benefits of Night Journaling

    When I first started journalling, I had no idea how much it would help me, but the benefits quickly became clear. Here are some of the amazing perks:

    Mental Health Boost: Journaling at night helps reduce anxiety and stress. It’s like a brain dump where you can unload all your worries onto the page, leaving your mind clearer and calmer.

    Better Sleep: Clearing your mind before bed can lead to a more restful sleep. By reflecting on your day and focusing on the positives, you’re less likely to lie awake worrying about tomorrow.

    Self-Reflection: Taking a few minutes to reflect on your day helps you understand yourself better. It’s a moment to think about what went well and what didn’t, fostering personal growth.

    Positive Mindset: Ending the day on a high note with positive thoughts can shift your overall mindset. It’s a chance to focus on the good things, no matter how small, and carry that positivity into the next day.


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    Note on Mental Health

    Anxiety, depression, and postpartum depression (PPD) are serious conditions that require professional help. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a healthcare provider. I spoke to my doctor and received support through the PANDAS Foundation, which was incredibly helpful.

    Remember, night journaling and small well-being practices can be wonderful additional tools for your mental health, but they are not substitutes for professional treatment. Take care of yourself and seek the help you need.

    How to Get Started with Night Journaling

    Getting started with night journaling is really easy. You don’t need anything fancy, just a few simple steps to make it a part of your nightly routine. Here’s how you can start:

    Set the Scene

    Comfortable Spot: Choose a cosy place, maybe your favourite chair or your bed.

    Soft Lighting: Use soft, warm lighting to create a soothing atmosphere.

    Relaxing Music or Silence: Some people find background music helpful, while others prefer silence. Do what feels right for you.

    Materials Needed

    Journal or Notebook: Pick something that feels good to write in. It could be a simple notebook or a beautiful journal. I’m currently using this dotted journal, which is perfect for me as I like to doodle as well and make pages look pretty 🙂

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    Pen or Pencil: Choose a pen or pencil that you enjoy writing with.

    Optional: Stickers, coloured pens, and other decorative items can make the experience more enjoyable if you like getting creative. I really like these motivational quote stickers to fill pages out with in-between journal entries. I try and use ones that are relevant to my day.

    Establish a Routine

    Choose a Consistent Time: Find a time that works for you, whether it’s right before bed or after your evening routine.

    Make It Non-Negotiable: Treat this time as an essential part of your self-care routine, just like brushing your teeth.

    When I started journaling earlier this year, I found that having a set routine made it easier to stick with it. I’d grab my journal, snuggle up under my weighted blanket, grab my herbal tea and spend just a few minutes reflecting on my day.


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    Night Journal Prompts for Positive Thoughts

    Now that you’re ready to start night journaling, let’s talk about what to write. Sometimes, staring at a blank page can be intimidating, so having a few prompts can help get your thoughts flowing. Here are some of my favourite night journal prompts that focus on ending your day with positive thoughts:

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    Gratitude Prompts

    Reflecting on what you’re grateful for can shift your focus to the positive aspects of your day.

    • “What are three things you are grateful for today?”
    • “Write about a moment today that made you smile.”

    Reflection Prompts

    These prompts help you think about your day and acknowledge both the good and the challenging moments.

    • “What was the best part of your day?”
    • “What did you accomplish today that you’re proud of?”

    Self-Compassion Prompts

    Practicing self-compassion is essential for mental well-being. These prompts encourage you to be kind to yourself.

    • “Write a kind message to yourself.”
    • “What challenges did you face today, and how did you handle them?”

    Goal-Setting Prompts

    Setting small goals for the next day can help you stay focused and motivated.

    • “What is one thing you hope to achieve tomorrow?”
    • “How can you make tomorrow even better than today?”

    When I first started journaling, I found that these night journal prompts were incredibly helpful. They gave me a structure to follow and made the whole process feel more manageable. Each night, I’d pick a couple of prompts and jot down my thoughts.

    Tips for Effective Night Journaling

    Starting a night journaling practice can be a wonderful addition to your routine, but like any new habit, it might take a little time to get into it. Here are some tips to help you make the most out of your journaling sessions:

    Be Honest

    Your journal is a safe space for your thoughts and feelings. Write openly and honestly without self-judgment.

    No Filters: Don’t worry about spelling, grammar, or whether your thoughts make perfect sense.

    Be True to Yourself: Write what you truly feel and think, not what you think you should write.

    Stay Consistent

    The more regularly you journal, the more benefits you’ll see. Aim to make it a nightly habit.

    Daily Habit: Even if it’s just for a few minutes, try to journal every night.

    Set Reminders: Use alarms or reminders to help you remember to journal, especially when you’re first starting out. But don’t worry if you miss a day here or there.

    Keep It Simple

    Don’t overcomplicate the process. Sometimes, less is more.

    Short and Sweet: A few lines can be just as powerful as a whole page.

    Focus on Positivity: Especially if you’re using this practice to boost your mood before bed, try to focus on positive reflections.

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    Personalise Your Prompts

    Feel free to adjust or change the prompts to better suit your needs.

    Make Them Yours: Tailor the prompts to reflect your personal goals, challenges, and interests.

    Mix It Up: Don’t be afraid to switch up your prompts to be more specific to your life situation.

    As a bit of a perfectionist, I did initially spend too much time thinking about what to write and how I sounded, sometimes even feeling a bit awkward about it. However, I found that keeping it simple and staying consistent was key to making it a habit. Some nights, I’d write just a few lines, while other nights, I’d fill pages. It’s all about what feels right for you at the moment.

    Overcoming Common Challenges

    Even with the best intentions, there might be a few bumps along the road when you start journaling. Here are some common challenges and how to overcome them:

    Time Management

    Finding time to journal, especially on busy nights, can be tough. But remember, even a few minutes can make a difference.

    Keep It Brief: Aim for just 5-10 minutes of journaling. And if you’re really short on time, pick one prompt and spend just 2 minutes on it. It doesn’t have to be a lengthy process.

    Integrate It Into Your Routine: Pair journaling with another nightly habit, like brushing your teeth or before reading a book.

    Writer’s Block

    Staring at a blank page can be daunting. If you’re not sure what to write, prompts can help, but there are other strategies too.

    Start Small: Begin with a single sentence about your day or something you’re grateful for.

    Use Lists: Write lists instead of paragraphs, like a list of things that went well today or a list of goals for tomorrow.


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    Consistency

    It can be challenging to stick with a new habit, especially when life gets busy.

    Create a Reminder: Set a daily reminder on your phone to journal.

    Be Flexible: If you miss a night, don’t stress. Just pick it back up the next night.

    When I first started journaling earlier this year, I faced all these challenges. There were nights when I was too tired or just didn’t feel like writing. But I found that being flexible and kind to myself made a big difference. If I missed a night, I didn’t let it derail my progress. I simply started again the next day.

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    Night Journal Prompts: Conclusion

    To wrap things up, night journaling can be an amazing tool for ending your day on a positive note. It’s a simple practice that offers numerous benefits, from reducing stress and anxiety to improving sleep and fostering personal growth.

    Night journaling has become my little sanctuary. It was a small, manageable habit that helped me navigate a challenging time, and I believe it can do the same for you – I truly hope these night journal prompts help you!

    If you’re new to journaling, remember to start small and keep it simple. Use the prompts provided, find a cosy spot, and make it a part of your nightly routine. Don’t worry about perfection – just write honestly and consistently, and let the practice evolve naturally.

    Give night journaling a try tonight! Grab a notebook, pick a prompt, and spend a few minutes reflecting on your day. I’d love to hear about your experiences and any prompts that resonate with you. Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let’s support each other on this journey to ending our days with positivity and peace.

  • Daily Habits To Improve Your Life: 10 Habits To Try Today

    Introduction

    Are you looking for small easy habits to incorporate into your life? Then keep reading! This post covers 10 easy of daily habits to improve your life and overall wellbeing. Start working towards a happier and healthier you. These are small changes that will make a huge difference to your mindset. These habits don’t all have to be implemented, and certainly not all at once; even just picking out a few of these to focus on at one time will still make a difference.


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    1. Drink Water First Thing In The Morning

    A great way to start the day is to drink a glass of water first thing in the morning. Not only is it great for hydration, it can help you feel less groggy upon waking and give you more energy. Plus, it’s a simple and natural way to keep your body healthy and running smoothly! This is also a great time to take any vitamins/medication so you don’t forget.

    Leave some water on your bedside table the night before, this means it will be within reach as soon as you wake up. If you want to be a little bit extra (like me), you can get a cute water carafe that matches your aesthetic. I LOVE this one.

    2. Make Your bed Straight Away

    Making your bed first thing in the morning is a great way to start your day off on the right foot. Making the bed takes no time at all but will give you a sense of accomplishment and help you to feel immediately more productive. Not only that, but it can help create a calming environment in your bedroom so you can continue to be productive throughout the day.

    Hopefully you don’t have to guiltily move your cat like I do!

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    3. Get Dressed (Even if You’re Not Going Anywhere)

    This is especially important for those of us working from home. It may seem like a small step, but getting dressed for work can have a big impact. By getting dressed in the morning, you’re sending a signal to your brain that it’s time to get to work. It helps you stay organized, focused, and motivated since you’re in “work mode.��

    But even if you’re not working, getting dressed can boost your self-confidence, which can help you stay on task and more productive.

    You don’t have to be in a suit or anything particularly fashionable, it’s just about getting out of what you slept in. My go-to for WFH is a pair of tracksuit bottoms, a jumper and my slipper socks.

    4. Establish a Skincare Routine

    An effective skincare routine is essential for keeping your skin looking healthy and vibrant. Whether you are trying to clear acne, or prevent wrinkles, looking after your skin is a form of self care. Try to find a routine that is specific for you, and that you can stick to on a daily basis – morning and night.

    I recommend having a “bare minimum” skincare routine alongside your usual one. Meaning that even if you are rushing and don’t have a lot of time, you at least use your minimum products. So my usual morning routine is cleanser, toner/exfoliator, vitamin c serum, moisturiser & SPF. My “bare minimum” routine is cleanser, moisturiser and SPF (you should always use SPF!).

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    5. Do a 5 Minute Morning Declutter

    This routine isn’t about cleaning necessarily, it’s about getting everything in it’s place as a way to start the day off right. This helps to keep you organized and productive, as you can quickly find what you need when you need it. I personally feel a lot less scattered when everything is in it’s place.

    Every day (try for the morning), set a timer for 5 minutes and do these 3 things – in this order:

    1. Throw away any rubbish and gather any plates or cups left around the house and put them in the sink/dishwasher.
    2. Put anything that’s in the wrong place away. e.g. pens left on the coffee table, clothes not in the wardrobe or laundry basket, small kitchen appliances that need to be put away etc.
    3. If you have any time left over, pick a small area to declutter i.e. a drawer, or cupboard. (You don’t have to finish decluttering it, just make start – you can do more another day.

    5 minutes works for me as I am in a fairly small apartment with no kids, but you may need to make it 10-15 minutes. The aim is to try and do it as fast as possible!

    6. Take Time To Move Each Day

    Taking time to move each day is so important for our physical and mental health! Whether it’s a walk around the neighbourhood, a few yoga poses, or a high-intensity workout, making time to move your body can have a significant positive impact on your overall wellbeing. It’s recommended that you try to fit in at least 30 minutes of exercise a day, but even 10 minutes will have it’s benefits and you can build on it.

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    7. Read For 10 Minutes A Day

    Reading is an incredibly valuable habit that can be beneficial in many ways. Studies have shown that reading can improve your intelligence, increase your vocabulary, sharpen your writing skills, and even reduce stress.

    It’s also a great way to escape from reality and relax. Challenge yourself to read for just 10 minutes each day. Before you know it, you’ll be hooked!

    8. Set Limits On Social Media

    Social media is a great way to stay connected with friends and family, but it can also be a major distraction from important tasks and activities. Setting limits on social media apps can help you to safeguard your mental and physical health by reducing the amount of time spent in front of a screen. Taking regular breaks from social media can help you to relax, recharge, and refocus on the important things in life. I use the built-in feature Samsung has for limiting screen time and and blocking certain apps – but there are also apps you can download that do this.

    9. Have a ‘No Screens’ rule for at least An Hour before You Go To Bed

    Implementing a “No Screens” rule for at least an hour before bed is a great way to help ensure a good night’s sleep. Not only does it give your eyes a break from the bright screens, but it can also help your mind to relax and wind down from the day. Use this time instead to establish a good night-time routine – make a cup of bedtime tea, read a book (great time for that 10 minutes!), meditate, plan the day for tomorrow, chat with loved ones etc.

    Another option for this time is…

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    10. …Write down 3 Things you are Grateful For

    Writing down the things you are grateful for is an incredibly powerful way to cultivate a positive outlook on life. It helps to reframe your thinking, so instead of focusing on the negatives, you can take time to recognize and appreciate all the good things in your life. Not only will this help to reduce feelings of stress, anxiety, and depression, but it can also help you to build stronger relationships with those around you. Taking the time to appreciate the little things can also help to increase motivation and productivity, so writing down the things you are grateful for can be a great way to improve your overall wellbeing!

    Daily Habits To Improve Your Life: Conclusion

    On average, research suggests that it takes more than two months for a new behaviour to become automatic. Habit formation is an important process for achieving goals and living a healthier life. It’s a process of repetition and reinforcement, which helps to build new behaviours and replace unhealthy ones. The timeframe for this can vary depending on the complexity of the behaviour or habit, your motivation and dedication to practicing it, and the amount of repetition and reinforcement the habit receives. It’s important to be patient and consistent, as it can take some time for the habit to become second nature. Slowly incorporate these daily habits to improve your life by only working on a few at a time.

    What do you think of this list of daily habits to improve your life? Do you have any of your own recommendations? Leave a comment below!