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  • Wellbeing

    How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty

    So far in this series, we’ve talked about lazy girl self-care, how to make exercise feel like self-care, and even how self-care and sustainable weight loss go hand in hand. But let’s get real for a second—learning to prioritise yourself can feel uncomfortable, even a little selfish.

    If you’ve ever thought:

    • “I should be doing something more productive.”
    • “I feel bad saying no to people.”
    • “I don’t have time for self-care.”

    …then you’re not alone. A lot of us have been conditioned to put everyone else first, to be the reliable one, the selfless one, the one who always says yes.

    But here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup.

    I used to think self-care was an extra, something I could do after I’d taken care of everything else. But after years of burnout, all-or-nothing thinking, and running myself into the ground, I realised that prioritising myself wasn’t selfish—it was necessary.

    So if you’re struggling to make time for yourself without guilt, here’s how to start.

    Table of Contents

    1. Accept That To Prioritise Yourself Is Not Selfish

    First things first—let’s destroy the idea that self-care is selfish.

    You are allowed to take care of yourself. You’re allowed to have boundaries. And you are allowed to rest, reset, and recharge.

    Here’s what helped me shift my mindset:

    • When you take care of yourself, you have more energy for others.
    • Prioritising yourself teaches people to respect your time and needs.
    • Burnout benefits no one—not you, not your family, not your work.

    2. Stop Waiting for “Free Time” (Because It’ll Never Magically Appear)

    I used to think I’d start prioritising myself when I had more time. Spoiler: that day never came. Life will always be busy.

    There will always be chores, work, responsibilities, and people who need you.

    So instead of waiting for free time, I started creating it:

    • Blocking out self-care time in my schedule (yes, literally putting it on my to-do list).
    • Setting alarms for micro self-care breaks (a five-minute walk, a deep breath, a cup of tea).
    • Saying no to things I didn’t actually want to do (game-changing).
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    3. Set Boundaries (Without Feeling Like a Bad Person)

    Saying no used to terrify me. I didn’t want to disappoint people. I didn’t want to seem rude. But constantly saying yes to everything left me exhausted, overwhelmed, and frustrated.

    So I started setting gentle but firm boundaries:

    • “I can’t make it this time, but let’s plan something for next week!”
    • “I don’t have the capacity to help with that right now.”
    • “I need some time to myself today, let’s catch up later.”

    And guess what? No one was mad. The people who respect you will respect your boundaries. And if someone gets annoyed?

    That’s a them problem, not a you problem.

    Protect your time and energy like it’s your most valuable resource—because it is.

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    4. Make Self-Care Non-Negotiable (Even If It’s Just 5 Minutes)

    A lot of people think self-care means long baths, spa days, or two-hour morning routines. But real self-care is the small, daily things that keep you feeling good.

    Here’s what helped me:

    • Hydration first. Before coffee, before checking my phone—just a glass of water.
    • A skincare routine that’s basic but effective. (cleanser, moisturiser, SPF—that’s it.)
    • Movement that feels good. Some days it’s a run, some days it’s stretching in bed.
    • A five-minute break from screens. No doomscrolling, just a pause.

    If you have time to scroll social media, you have time for self-care.

    5. Let Go of Guilt (You Deserve to Take Up Space)

    Guilt used to eat me alive. If I rested, I felt lazy. I said no, I felt like I was letting people down. If I chose myself, I felt selfish.

    But here’s what I finally realised:

    • Rest is productive.
    • Saying no doesn’t make you a bad person.
    • You deserve to take up space in your own life.

    So if you struggle with guilt, remind yourself:

    • You’re not neglecting others—you’re taking care of yourself so you can show up better.
    • To prioritise yourself doesn’t mean you don’t care about others—it means you care about yourself too.
    • Rest is a basic human need, not a reward you have to earn.

    You are just as important as everyone else you take care of. don’t forget that.

    6. Unapologetically Romanticise Your Own Life

    You don’t need permission to enjoy your own life. Sometimes, prioritising yourself is as simple as making everyday moments feel special.

    • Turn a basic shower into a spa experience (shower steamers = game-changer).
    • Drink your coffee slowly, without distractions.
    • Go for a walk with music that makes you feel like the main character.
    • Make your space feel good—candles, fairy lights, fresh sheets.

    You don’t need a reason to do nice things for yourself. just do them.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.

    Final Thoughts: Prioritise Yourself Guilt-Free

    If you’re waiting for someone to give you permission to prioritise yourself, this is it.

    You deserve to:

    • Take care of yourself without guilt.
    • Set boundaries and say no when you need to.
    • Enjoy life without feeling like you have to earn it.

    Next up: How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck—because sometimes, you just need a fresh start.

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  • Wellbeing

    7 Lazy Girl Self-Care Hacks: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort

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    Look, we all know self-care is important, but who actually has the time (or the energy) to spend hours on elaborate skincare routines, morning meditations, or journaling under the full moon while sipping matcha?

    Not me. And I’m guessing, not you either.

    Good news: self-care doesn’t have to be a full-time job. It doesn’t have to be fancy, expensive, or involve making a 45-minute trip to a yoga studio where everyone drinks green juice and pretends to love kale.

    It just has to be something that makes you feel a bit more human—and it needs to fit into your life without sucking up all your time and motivation.

    So, let’s talk about lazy girl self-care—the kind that actually works without requiring Olympic levels of effort. This is your boss motivation list to get yourself back on track, even if you’re a busy mom, a student, or just completely over everything.

    Table of Contents

    1. Drop the All-or-Nothing Mindset

    First things first: self-care isn’t an all-or-nothing game. You don’t need to have a perfect 10-step basic skin care routine or dedicate two hours a day to journaling your feelings.

    Some days, self-care is a full-blown DIY home spa night with face masks, fluffy dressing gowns, and candles that smell like a Scandinavian forest.

    Other days, it’s remembering to drink water before coffee so you don’t feel like a dehydrated raisin.

    Both count.

    If you need a little boost, make a self-care vision board with some vision board photos that inspire a healthy lifestyle—whether that’s a spa day, a stack of good books, or just a picture of someone drinking water like they actually enjoy it.

    Lazy Girl Rule #1: Doing something is always better than doing nothing.

    2. Hydration, But Make It Fun

    Water is boring. There, I said it.

    But dehydration makes you feel like a zombie, and it’s the easiest fix on this list.

    Here’s how to actually drink more water without forcing yourself:

    • Get a fancy water bottle. Weirdly motivating.
    • Add fruit or a splash of juice.
    • Set a phone reminder that says something dramatic like, “Drink water or perish.”

    And if you want to feel extra aesthetic, try making your own DIY self-care recipes for infused water. Hydration, but make it girly.

    Lazy Girl Rule #2: If you wouldn’t forget your morning coffee, don’t forget your water.

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    3. Sleep: The Most Underrated Form of Self-Care

    I know, I know. You’ll go to bed earlier… right after this one last scroll through TikTok and “how to get my life together” reels.

    But here’s the thing—sleep is self-care in its easiest form. You literally have to do nothing, and yet, it improves your mood, energy, skin, and metabolism without you lifting a finger.

    So, let’s fix your sleep hygiene the lazy way:

    • Dark room, no distractions. You don’t need blue light blasting into your retinas at midnight.
    • Cosy evening ritual. A hot drink, a book, or some comfort TV (Gilmore Girls, anyone?).
    • Ditch the guilt. Early bedtime equals elite-level self-care.

    If you struggle with sleep, a self-care routine before bed can make all the difference. Keep it basic—shower, skincare, no screens. Done.

    Lazy Girl Rule #3: Prioritise sleep like it’s your full-time job.

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    4. Do the Bare Minimum for Your Skin (and Feel Amazing Anyway)

    If your skincare routine currently consists of occasionally washing your face when you remember, congratulations, you’re already halfway there.

    You don’t need 17 serums or a bathroom shelf that looks like a science lab. Stick to the three essentials, and you’re golden:

    • Cleanser – Because washing your face with just water doesn’t count. Find one that suits your skin type and actually use it.
    • Moisturiser – Keeps your skin happy and hydrated. Bonus points if it makes you feel like a dewy goddess.
    • SPF – Non-negotiable. Protect your skin like it’s your full-time job. Get a moisturiser with SPF to combine two steps into one, or grab a tinted one for an easy summer glow. I love this one by CeraVe!

    Everything else—toners, serums, essences, and face mists—is optional. If you love them, great. If they overwhelm you, skip them.

    Basic doesn’t mean bad—it means efficient.

    Lazy Girl Rule #4: Keep it stupidly simple.

    5. Move Your Body (Without Calling It a Workout)

    Exercise is great. It boosts your mood, helps with stress, and gives you those smug I’ve got my life together vibes.

    But forcing yourself into hardcore workouts when you can barely be bothered to put socks on?

    Not happening.

    Let’s make movement fun and effortless:

    • Walk and talk. Ring your girlfriends, have a gossip, and rack up your steps.
    • Dance around the kitchen. Two songs equals five minutes of cardio. Sorted.
    • Lazy girl gym alternative. Stretch in bed, squat while brushing your teeth, do a couple of lunges while waiting for the kettle to boil.

    If you’re postpartum or having a sick day, gentle stretching can work wonders for feeling refreshed.

    Lazy Girl Rule #5: If it feels like a chore, you’re doing it wrong.

    6. Dopamine Boosts That Take Less Than a Minute

    Some days, self-care is just doing something tiny that makes your brain happy.

    Here are instant mood-boosters for when you feel meh:

    • Listen to an upbeat song you love.
    • Eat a piece of dark chocolate.
    • Step outside for fresh air and sunlight.
    • Watch a funny video or meme.
    • Try a new scent (essential oils, perfume, coffee beans).
    • Write down three things you’re grateful for.
    • Text a friend something kind or funny.
    • Do a quick 5-minute tidy-up.

    For an extra touch, add a self-care bullet journal to track these moments—nothing fancy, just a quick list of what makes you feel good.

    Want an easy way to boost your mood on demand? A dopamine menu is your personalised cheat sheet for instant feel-good moments. From quick wins to cosy self-care, it’s self-care without the overthinking. Learn how to create yours!

    Create Your Own Dopamine Menu: A Guide to Boosting Your Mood

    Lazy Girl Rule #6: Self-care doesn’t have to be deep. Sometimes, it’s just doing little things that make you smile.

    7. Treat Yourself Like You Would Your Best Friend

    You wouldn’t let your best friend run on three hours of sleep, eat crisps for dinner, and speak to herself like a trash goblin, so stop doing it to yourself.

    Talk to yourself like someone you love. Be nice to yourself. Give yourself permission to rest without guilt.

    Lazy Girl Rule #7: If you wouldn’t say it to your friend, don’t say it to yourself.

    Low-Effort Self-Care

    Want to upgrade your self-care without the stress? This series is all about realistic, low-effort self-care that actually fits into your life—no guilt, no overwhelm, just small changes that make a big difference.

    Explore the full Lazy Girl Self-Care Series:

    1. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care: How to Feel Better with Minimal Effort
    2. The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women
    3. How to Create a Self-Care Routine That You Actually Stick To
    4. How to Practice Mindfulness Without Meditating for Hours
    5. The Best Self-Care Ideas for When You’re Burnt Out
    6. How to Make Exercise Feel Like Self-Care (Not a Punishment)
    7. The Connection Between Self-Care & Sustainable Weight Loss
    8. How to Prioritise Yourself Without Feeling Guilty
    9. How to Reset Your Life When You’re Feeling Stuck

    Pick one, start small, and give yourself permission to make self-care easy.

    Final Thoughts: Self-Care Shouldn’t Feel Like a Chore

    You don’t need an elaborate self-care lifestyle. You just need small, feel-good habits that fit effortlessly into your life.

    • Hydrate, but make it fun.
    • Sleep like it’s your job.
    • Move in ways that don’t feel like punishment.
    • Take dopamine hits where you can.
    • Be nice to yourself. Seriously.

    Self-care isn’t about being perfect. It’s about doing what you can, with what you have, without making life harder than it needs to be.

    And if you needed permission to embrace lazy girl self-care—you’ve got it. Now go drink some water and put on a face mask.

    You deserve it.

    Next up: The Best 5-Minute Self-Care Hacks for Busy Women—because self-care doesn’t have to take hours to make a difference!

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  • Personal Development

    The 1% Rule: How To Better Yourself Every Day Without Overwhelm

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    Let’s be honest—most people decide they want to reinvent themselves and immediately try to change everything at once. They dive headfirst into a new self-improvement routine, convinced that this time, they’ll finally stick to it. But a few weeks later, the motivation fizzles out, and they’re right back where they started. If that sounds familiar, don’t worry—you’re not the problem. The problem is trying to overhaul your entire lifestyle overnight instead of focusing on small ways to improve your life one step at a time. The solution? The 1% Rule.

    This little gem is about getting 1% better every single day. No dramatic overhauls. No setting yourself up for failure with impossible routines. Just small, manageable improvements that add up over time.

    So, in this post, I’m going to break down:

    • What the 1% Rule Is (and Why It Works)
    • How Small Changes Lead to Big Results
    • How to Apply It to Different Areas of Your Life
    • How to Stay Consistent Without Overwhelm

    Let’s get cracking.

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    What is the 1% Rule? (And Why It Works)

    The 1% Rule is simple: instead of trying to reinvent yourself overnight, you focus on tiny, daily improvements.

    This concept comes from marginal gains theory (a fancy way of saying ‘small changes add up’). The British Cycling Team used this approach to go from meh to medal-winning legends by improving the tiniest details—tweaking bike seats, optimising sleep, even learning how to wash their hands properly to avoid illness. (I seriously recommend reading more about this here!).

    You can do the same in your own life. Whether you want to get fitter, smarter, richer, or just feel like less of a chaotic mess, small ways to improve your life every day will get you there.

    The 1% Rule is all about consistency, but let’s be honest—building habits that actually stick is a whole other challenge. If you’re tired of falling off track, check out Mastering Habit Formation and Behaviour Change for Your Health to learn how to create habits that last.

    Check it out here!

    Why it works:

    • Small improvements feel easy. You’re not overhauling your whole existence overnight, so it doesn’t feel impossible.
    • It stops the all-or-nothing trap. Instead of “I skipped one workout, so I might as well give up,” you just aim for small progress.
    • It compounds over time. One tiny change today, another tomorrow, and suddenly you’ve got real momentum.

    Bottom line? Progress is progress, no matter how small.

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    How Small Changes Lead to Big Results

    You know how people say, “Little things make a big difference”? Turns out, they’re right.

    If you improve by 1% every day, by the end of the year, you’ll be 37 times better than when you started. That’s not woo-woo motivational nonsense, that’s actual maths.

    Meanwhile, if you do nothing? You stay the same—or worse, you slide backwards.

    So, do you want to be 1% better or 1% worse each day? The choice is yours.

    You can’t improve if you don’t believe you can. That’s where growth mindset comes in. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, I’ll never be that disciplined, it’s time to shift your perspective. Read Growth Mindset: Why It’s Essential for Self-Motivation and Personal Improvement to start rewiring your thinking for success.

    Check it out here!

    Applying the 1% Rule to Different Areas of Your Life

    Right, let’s make this practical. Here’s how to use the 1% Rule in different areas of your life, whether you want to get stronger, smarter, or just feel more in control.

    Fitness & Health

    • Swap one unhealthy snack for something better. No need to go full salad mode.
    • Add five extra minutes of movement. Even if it’s just dancing in your kitchen.
    • How to stay disciplined diet? Start by drinking more water or adding protein to meals—simple, right?

    Productivity & Work

    • Spend two minutes clearing your workspace—it helps more than you think.
    • Write one extra sentence on that project instead of waiting for a magical burst of motivation.
    • Plan tomorrow’s tasks in a planner PDF before you finish work. Future you will thank you.

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    Mental and Emotional Health

    • Read one page of a book that helps your personal improvement.
    • Take three deep breaths before reacting to stress. Yes, it actually helps.
    • Start a self care bullet journal to track your mood and habits.

    Self-Discipline & Confidence

    • Set a ridiculously easy goal (like 5 minutes of something productive) and practice self discipline by sticking to it.
    • Take a second to notice and celebrate tiny wins. This builds self confidence that keep you going.
    • If you’re working on self reinvention, stop waiting for the “right time” and start with one tiny action today.

    Pick one area, one tiny action, and just start.

    How to Stay Consistent Without Overwhelm

    This is where most people struggle. Starting is easy—sticking with it is the real challenge.

    Here’s how to make sure you don’t throw in the towel:

    1. Make it so easy you can’t fail

    If it feels like too much effort, shrink it. Want to start working out? Do one squat. Want to read more? Just one sentence.

    The goal is to build momentum.

    Motivation is great… until it disappears. The real secret? Consistency. If you struggle with sticking to your habits when the excitement fades, Consistency Over Motivation: 5 Ways to Stay on Track will help you keep going—even on tough days.

    Check it out here!

    2. Track your progress (without going overboard)

    A simple checklist or self care bullet journal can help you stay on track. No need to obsess—just a little accountability.

    3. Stack your habits

    Tie your new habit to something you already do:

    • Do five squats after brushing your teeth.
    • Drink water before your morning coffee.
    • Write down one thing you’re grateful for before bed.

    4. Celebrate the small wins

    Did you drink an extra glass of water? Brilliant. Did you move your body for five minutes? Fantastic. The more you put yourself first and recognise progress, the easier it is to keep going.

    Final Thoughts: The Magic of 1% Improvements

    Look, I know it’s tempting to wake up and try to reinvent yourself overnight. But real, lasting change? It happens one small step at a time.

    The 1% Rule is how you go from where you are now to where you want to be—without burning out.

    So, here’s your challenge: What’s one tiny change you can make today? Pick one and start now. No waiting until Monday.

    No overthinking. Just action.

    Because you matter, and your progress—no matter how small—is worth celebrating.

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  • Pilates

    How Pilates Transforms Your Core Strength

    Core Strength

    In the last post, we weighed the pros and cons of Pilates vs. yoga (Check that out here). If you’ve decided to stick with Pilates (great choice, by the way!), then you’re about to unlock its best-kept secret: core strength.

    Yep, those precise movements and controlled breathing are about to work wonders on your middle, giving you a strong, stable foundation for everything you do—whether that’s carrying shopping bags, sitting at your desk with better posture, or finally nailing that Pilates roll-up without wobbling.

    So, in this post, we’ll explore:

    • What core strength actually is (spoiler: it’s more than just abs).
    • How Pilates builds your core like a pro.
    • The real-life perks of a stronger core.
    • What results you can expect over time.

    Ready to feel the burn (and love it)? Let’s dive in.

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    What is Core Strength?

    When we talk about the core, it’s not just about getting six-pack abs (although that’s a nice bonus). Your core is the powerhouse of your body, made up of multiple muscles that support your spine, stabilise your body, and keep you moving efficiently.

    Key core muscles include:

    • The rectus abdominis – The one responsible for that “six-pack” look.
    • The transverse abdominis – A deep core muscle that acts like a built-in corset, keeping everything tight and stable.
    • The obliques – The muscles that help with twisting and side-bending movements.
    • The erector spinae – These run along your spine and play a huge role in posture and back support.

    A strong core isn’t just for show—it improves balance, enhances posture, and reduces the risk of injury. Think of it as your body’s internal scaffolding, helping with everything from lifting groceries to smashing your Pilates workouts with ease.

    How Pilates Builds Core Strength

    Pilates doesn’t just target your core—it makes it the star of the show.

    • Deep Engagement: Each move focuses on activating your deep abdominal muscles.
    • Controlled Movements: No rushing here! The slow, deliberate pace ensures you’re working your core with precision.
    • Variety of Exercises: From classics like The Hundred to planks and pelvic curls, Pilates serves up plenty of core-centric challenges.
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    Two core-focused exercises to try:

    1. The Hundred:
      • Lie on your back with legs in tabletop position.
      • Lift your head and shoulders, extend your arms, and pulse them up and down.
      • Inhale for 5 pulses, exhale for 5, repeating until you reach 100.
    2. Plank:
      • Get into a push-up position, hands under shoulders, body in a straight line.
      • Hold for 20–30 seconds, focusing on engaging your core.

    Pro Tip: Always think about pulling your belly button towards your spine. It’s the secret sauce for that deep burn.

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    Everyday Benefits of a Strong Core

    The benefits of a strong core go beyond your mat:

    1. Reduced Back Pain: Say goodbye to those nagging aches. A strong core supports your spine, taking pressure off your lower back.
    2. Better Posture: No more slouching! Pilates helps you stand taller and look more confident.
    3. Improved Balance: Whether you’re walking on uneven ground or trying wall Pilates exercises, a strong core keeps you steady.
    4. Functional Fitness: From bending to pick up your toddler to reaching for the top shelf, core strength makes daily tasks easier.

    Results You Can Expect Over Time

    Consistency is key, but here’s what you can look forward to:

    • Week 1–2 – Expect some wobbling—your muscles are waking up and figuring out how to activate properly.
    • Week 3–4 – You’ll notice better control during movements like roll-ups or planks, and daily activities may start to feel easier.
    • Month 2+ – Improved posture, reduced back pain, and a noticeable boost in core strength. You may even feel stronger in other workouts, too.
    • Long-Term – A rock-solid foundation that enhances everything from Pilates and strength training to simply moving better in everyday life.

    💡 Pro Tip: Track your progress by jotting down how your body feels after each session or taking occasional photos. The little wins add up fast!

    More Pilates Tips & Workouts You’ll Love

    Ready to take your Pilates journey to the next level? Check out these must-read posts for beginner-friendly workouts, expert tips, and game-changing Pilates advice to help you build strength, improve flexibility, and stay consistent!

    Conclusion

    Pilates transforms your core strength through mindful movement, controlled exercises, and consistent practice.

    It’s not just about looking good (though the results don’t hurt!); it’s about building a strong, stable body that supports you in every way—whether you’re flowing through a Pilates class, chasing after kids, or just sitting comfortably without aches and pains.

    So, keep showing up, keep engaging that core, and enjoy the journey.

    Your future self will thank you.

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    Studies

    • Core stability is essential for maintaining functional movement and preventing injury. Pilates is particularly effective in engaging deep core muscles, such as the transverse abdominis, which acts like a built-in corset to stabilise the spine (Joyce & Kotler, 2017).
    • Pilates exercises improve core activation and strength, particularly benefiting those with musculoskeletal conditions (Cuddy & Gaskell, 2019).
    • Research shows that Pilates helps improve core muscle activation and supports spinal stability. It is particularly effective in engaging abdominal and back muscles through controlled movements (Franks, Thwaites, & Morris, 2023).
    • A 12-week Pilates intervention led to improvements in core stability, though effects on flexibility and body composition were limited (Pumpa et al., 2015).
    • Reduced Back Pain: Studies indicate that Pilates is effective in reducing chronic low back pain by strengthening core muscles and improving postural control (Franks, Thwaites, & Morris, 2023).
    • Better Posture: Pilates training has been linked to improved postural control and stability, particularly in older adults, making it a great addition to fitness routines (Smith & Smith, 2005).
    • Improved Balance: Pilates-based training enhances core stability and balance, making everyday activities easier and reducing fall risk (Thakkar et al., 2021).
    • Short-Term Gains: A four-week Pilates programme improved core strength and flexibility, even though body composition remained unchanged (Raghavendra, 2018).
    • Long-Term Benefits: Regular Pilates practice leads to significant improvements in core muscle strength, postural stability, and movement control, particularly in populations such as dancers and athletes (Wang, 2023).
  • Nutrition

    8 Foods to Avoid If You’re Serious About Thriving on GLP-1 Medications

    GLP-1 Medications

    So, you’re on GLP-1 medications—whether that’s Ozempic, Wegovy, or another semaglutide—and you’re smashing it! But then, bam: a dodgy stomach, bloating, or feeling like you’ve eaten a bowling ball. Sound familiar? That’s where knowing what NOT to eat comes in handy.

    Before we dive into it, here’s a quick confession: I haven’t taken GLP-1 medications myself. I lost 80lbs by adopting small, sustainable healthy habits that I could stick to long-term. But I’ve spent a lot of time researching GLP-1 medications to stay up to date with the latest weight loss techniques.

    Whether it’s a traditional approach or the latest science-backed methods, I’m all about helping you find what works for you.

    And here’s something I’ve learned along the way: no food is completely off-limits. Yep, you heard me! Life is too short to say “never” to your favourite treats.

    The key is moderation. If you fancy chips or a slice of cake now and then, go for it! Just keep it balanced, and you’ll be golden.

    This isn’t about restriction—it’s about learning what helps you thrive while avoiding those “ugh, why did I eat that?” moments.

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    1. High-Fat, Greasy Foods: The Stomach Bombs

    Look, I love chips as much as the next person, but those deep-fried beauties can turn your GLP-1 journey into a greasy nightmare. High-fat, greasy foods are hard to digest, especially when medications like Ozempic slow your stomach emptying.

    The result? Nausea, bloating, and a whole lot of regret.

    Examples to dodge: Fried chicken, takeaway fish and chips, anything slathered in butter.

    Better options: Grilled salmon, roasted veggies with a drizzle of olive oil, or air-fried chips if you’re feeling fancy. These make fab additions to your GLP-1 diet meals!

    Pro Tip: If you’re craving a cheeky portion of chips, have a small one and enjoy every bite. It’s all about balance, not banishment!

    Looking for the best foods to stock up on? Check out The Ultimate GLP-1 Grocery List! Now, let’s talk about what to avoid for success.

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    2. High-Sugar, Processed Foods: The Sneaky Saboteurs

    That cheeky slice of cake might seem harmless, but high-sugar foods can spike your blood sugar and leave you feeling knackered.

    GLP-1 meds already help balance your blood sugar, so piling on the sweets is like asking for a rollercoaster ride you didn’t queue for.

    Examples to dodge: Doughnuts, fizzy drinks, sugar-loaded cereals.

    Better options: Fresh berries with Greek yoghurt, or a homemade protein ball. Delicious and effective for your Wegovy diet.

    Pro Tip: If cake is calling your name, pair a smaller slice with some protein or healthy fats to keep your energy steady. Win-win!

    3. Carbonated Drinks: The Bloat Monsters

    Fancy a fizzy drink? Hold that thought. Carbonated beverages can leave you bloated and uncomfortable—especially when your GLP-1 meds already slow digestion.

    Bloating plus nausea? No thanks.

    Examples to dodge: Fizzy sodas, sparkling water (yes, even the posh ones).

    Better options: Still water with a splash of lemon or herbal teas. Hydration never tasted so good, eh?

    Pro Tip: Love a fizzy treat? Enjoy it sparingly and see how your body reacts—it might be worth it for a little sparkle in your day!

    Struggling to stay consistent? The right foods can help! Head over to 5 Foods to Keep You Full for satisfying options that support your goals.

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    4. Large, Heavy Meals: The Overload

    We’ve all been there—a giant roast dinner that leaves you feeling like you need a lie-down. But here’s the thing: GLP-1 medications slow gastric emptying, so big meals can feel extra heavy.

    Portion control is your new best friend.

    Examples to dodge: Oversized pasta bowls, three-course meals that’d feed a small village.

    Better options: Stick to a “5 meals a day plan” with smaller portions, like grilled chicken and roasted veg for a semaglutide dinner idea. Keeps you full without the food coma!

    Pro Tip: Love a hearty meal? Split it up into smaller portions and savour it across the day. No deprivation, just clever planning.

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    5. Spicy Foods: The Stomach Agitators

    As much as I love a spicy stir-fry, too much heat can irritate your stomach—especially if you’re already feeling a bit queasy on GLP-1s.

    Let’s save the spice for another time, shall we?

    Examples to dodge: Hot curries, chilli sauces, extra spicy snacks.

    Better options: Milder dishes like a ginger and turmeric chicken soup. Warm, comforting, and easy on the tummy—perfect for your GLP-1 lunch ideas.

    Pro Tip: Can’t resist a bit of spice? Keep it mild and build up slowly—your stomach will thank you.

    6. Alcohol: The Fun Sponge

    I know, I know—a cheeky glass of wine sounds lovely. But alcohol can mess with blood sugar levels and exacerbate dizziness or nausea.

    Not ideal when you’re trying to stick to an Ozempic meal plan.

    Examples to dodge: Wine, cocktails, beer.

    Better options: Mocktails! Try sparkling water with fresh lime and mint. Fancy and functional.

    Pro Tip: Want a drink? Opt for lower-alcohol options and savour it slowly. Cheers to moderation!

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    7. Artificial Sweeteners: The Belly Bloaters

    Sugar-free sounds great until your stomach starts gurgling like a washing machine.

    Artificial sweeteners can upset your gut, so proceed with caution.

    Examples to dodge: Diet sodas, sugar-free gum, and certain “low-calorie” snacks.

    Better options: Sweeten your GLP-1 meals naturally with a bit of honey or stevia. Easy peasy!

    Pro Tip: Craving a sugar-free treat? Try it out and see how your body reacts—your gut will tell you if it’s a no-go.

    8. Refined Carbs: The Energy Vampires

    White bread, pastries, and plain pasta are sneaky little devils. They give you a quick energy hit but leave you ravenous soon after—exactly what your GLP-1 meds are trying to avoid.

    Examples to dodge: White toast, croissants, and instant noodles.

    Better options: Whole grains like quinoa or brown rice, paired with lean protein. Perfect for low-GI meal prep that fuels your day!

    Pro Tip: Love white bread? Pair it with protein or swap it out for sourdough—it’s a happy medium that’s kinder to your energy levels.

    Looking for more GLP-1 guidance? This post is part of my GLP-1 weight loss series, covering everything from starting out to maintaining results long-term. Check out all the posts below!

    1. GLP-1 Medications 101: What They Are and How They Work
    2. How to Get the Best Results on GLP-1 Medications: Tips for Success
    3. 5 Common Mistakes People Make on GLP-1 Medications (and How to Avoid Them)
    4. The Ultimate GLP-1 Meal Plan: Easy Protein-Packed Meals for Weight Loss
    5. The Ultimate GLP-1 Grocery List
    6. 8 Foods to Avoid If You’re Serious About Thriving on GLP-1 Medications
    7. Navigating Side Effects on GLP-1 Medications: What’s Normal & How to Manage Them
    8. Exercise on GLP-1: The Best Workouts for Fat Loss and Muscle Retention
    9. Coming Off GLP-1: How to Maintain Your Weight and Avoid Regaining
    10. 13 GLP-1 Must-Haves to Make Fat Loss Easier (and faster!)
    11. 14 High-Protein GLP-1 Fakeaway Recipes – Easy, Delicious & Side-Effect Safe!
    12. The Best GLP-1 Supplements for Energy, Muscle & Health

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    Final Thoughts

    At the end of the day, no food is completely off-limits. Life is about enjoying your meals while on Wegovy, Ozempic, or any GLP-1 medication—not living in fear of your favourite treats.

    With a bit of moderation and clever swaps, you can still enjoy all the foods you love while staying on track.

    So go on, enjoy those GLP-1-friendly meals, experiment with recipes for Wegovy or Ozempic diets, and make choices that make you feel amazing.

    You’re doing brilliantly—and I’m cheering you on every step of the way!

    📌 Next up: Navigating Side Effects on GLP-1 Medications: What’s Normal & How to Manage Them – How to handle common side effects like nausea, constipation, fatigue, etc.

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  • Wellbeing

    Rise and Shine: 19 Peaceful Habits for a Calm Start to Your Day

    Let’s be honest—mornings can be an absolute nightmare. You wake up groggy, the alarm feels like it’s screamed at you, and before you know it, you’re knee-deep in chaos with no time for any peaceful habits. Sound familiar? Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

    But here’s the thing—how you spend those first few hours sets the tone for your entire day. Want to feel like you’ve got your life together (even if you don’t)?

    Let’s chat about creating a calming morning routine that’ll have you starting your day fresh, focused, and fabulous.

    By the time you’re done with these 19 peaceful habits, you’ll not only wake up happy, but you’ll be mastering some serious positive lifestyle changes. No toxic habits allowed here.

    Ready? Let’s crack on.

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    Calm Your Mind

    1. Meditate or Breathe (Like You Actually Mean It)

    Before you reach for your phone, try this: sit up, close your eyes, and take a few deep breaths. Feel the calm wash over you. Five minutes. That’s all it takes to clear the morning fog and train your mind to be positive.

    2. Gratitude Journaling

    Grab a notebook and scribble down three things you’re grateful for. No pressure for big stuff—your coffee counts. It’s all about shifting your mindset. Daily journal prompts can really help with this one.

    3. Morning Affirmations

    Repeat after me: “I am a total legend.” Okay, maybe not that exactly, but affirmations like “Today is a good day to crush my goals” or “I deserve to feel calm and happy” will do the trick.

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    4. Read or Listen to Something Inspiring

    Whether it’s a few pages of a yoga blog or an audiobook on positive daily habits, this is your time to soak up some good vibes. Forget doom-scrolling; it’s all about fuelling your brain with positivity.

    5. Visualise Your Day

    Take a minute to picture how you want your day to go. Feeling fresh, smashing your goals, maybe even a cheeky win at work. This little trick helps you become a more positive person without even realising it.

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    Energise Your Body

    6. Gentle Stretching

    Look, you don’t have to be a yoga guru to enjoy a good stretch. A few simple moves to wake up your muscles and loosen your joints will do wonders. You’ll feel like you’ve had a mini spa day—no lie.

    7. Yoga or Light Exercise

    Speaking of yoga, even 10 minutes of a quick flow can work magic on your energy levels. Prefer something else? A brisk walk will do the job. It’s all about good healthy habits for your body.

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    8. Hydrate Like a Boss

    Before you even think about caffeine, drink a big glass of water. Add a squeeze of lemon if you’re feeling fancy. Staying hydrated is one of those life-changing habits that feels small but makes a massive difference.

    9. Nourish Your Body

    Breakfast doesn’t have to be fancy, but it does need to be wholesome. Oats, yoghurt, fruit—keep it simple and satisfying. Mindful eating = a calming start to your day.

    10. Splash Cold Water on Your Face

    Sounds dramatic, but trust me, it works. Instant refresh. You’ll feel like you’ve got your life together, even if you’re still in your PJs.

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    Feed Your Soul

    11. Open a Window or Step Outside

    Fresh air and sunlight? Absolute game-changers. Even if it’s a quick moment, it’ll lift your mood like nothing else. Plus, it’s a subtle way to practise self-love in your morning routine.

    12. Embrace the Silence

    Turn off the noise—no music, no podcasts, no distractions. Just you and the quiet. It’s weirdly soothing and exactly what you need to centre yourself.

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    13. Reflect in Your Journal

    Write down what’s on your mind. It can be anything—dreams, worries, or just a to-do list. This is your time to declutter your brain.

    14. Listen to Nature Sounds or Soft Music

    Set the mood with a calming playlist or ambient sounds. Ocean waves, chirping birds—whatever makes you feel zen.

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    Stay Grounded

    15. Set a Key Intention for the Day

    Pick one thing you really want to achieve. Just one. It keeps you focused and stops the overwhelm.

    16. Plan Your To-Do List

    Jot down 3-5 priorities. Keep it realistic, not a never-ending scroll of impossible tasks. This habit is a total sanity-saver.

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    17. Tidy Up Your Space

    A quick five-minute tidy in the morning can make all the difference. A clutter-free space = a clutter-free mind.

    18. Keep Your Phone Off (For Now)

    Seriously, ditch the screens for the first hour. Replace scrolling with simple peaceful habits like journaling, stretching, or sipping tea.

    19. Create a Morning Ritual Around Your Drink

    Speaking of tea (or coffee), make this a mindful moment. Sip slowly, breathe deeply, and just be. It’s a self-care morning routine in itself.

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    Conclusion

    There you have it—19 peaceful habits to build your perfect morning routine.

    You don’t need to do them all (you’re not superhuman!), but picking a few and sticking to them can totally upgrade your life. Check out my next post on creating a morning routine based on your mood here.

    Start small, stay consistent, and watch your mornings transform from chaos to calm. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about progress.

    So, here’s to positive changes, fresh starts, and mornings that make you feel unstoppable. You’ve got this!

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  • Wellbeing

    Wake Up for You: 5 Calming Morning Routines to Match Your Mood

    Let’s face it, not all mornings are created equal, and so not all calming morning routines will work for you. Some days, you wake up feeling ready to conquer the world; other days, you’d rather crawl back under the duvet and pretend life doesn’t exist.

    We’ve all been there, haven’t we?

    So, here’s the deal: your morning routine doesn’t have to be the same every day. Tailoring it to how you feel can make a world of difference.

    Whether you’re burnt out, stressed, or just feeling meh, I’ve got you covered with calming morning routines designed to match your mood. Ready to dive in?

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    For When You’re Burnt Out

    You’ve been running on empty, and it’s time to refuel. This relaxing morning routine is all about keeping things simple and nourishing your soul.

    Routine:

    1. Wake up slowly – Set a gentle alarm or let natural light wake you up if possible.
    2. Drink a glass of water – Hydrate before you caffeinate.
    3. Stretch in bed – No need to get up just yet; a few lazy stretches will do.
    4. Listen to nature sounds or soft music – Create a peaceful atmosphere to ease into your day.
    5. Write one thing you’re grateful for – Keep it short and sweet to lift your mood.
    6. Enjoy a nourishing breakfast – Think porridge with honey or avocado toast. Something comforting but light.
    7. Keep screens off for the first hour – Let your mind rest from all the noise.

    Pro Tip: Burnout thrives on overdoing it. Keep your routine slow and gentle—this is your time to recharge.

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    For When You’re Feeling Stressed

    Stress can hit like a ton of bricks, but you can take control. This peaceful morning routine is designed to calm your racing thoughts and set a positive tone for the day.

    Routine:

    1. Do 5 minutes of deep breathing – Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four.
    2. Write a quick to-do list – Focus on 3-5 priorities to reduce overwhelm.
    3. Move your body – A brisk walk, a gentle yoga flow, or even dancing to your favourite tune. Shake that stress off!
    4. Drink herbal tea – Chamomile or peppermint are great options to calm your nerves.
    5. Read a positive affirmation – Something like, “I am capable of handling whatever comes my way today.”
    6. Tidy your space – A 5-minute declutter can help clear your mind, too.

    Pro Tip: When you’re stressed, the key is to focus on simple habits that ground you, rather than trying to do everything at once.

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    For When You’re Feeling Low

    Some mornings feel heavier than others, and that’s okay. This self-love morning routine is all about lifting your spirits with kindness and care.

    Routine:

    1. Play your favourite song – Something upbeat to get you smiling (even if it’s just a little).
    2. Wrap up in a cosy blanket – Stay warm and comfy while you ease into your day.
    3. Journal your feelings – No pressure, just let it all out. Sometimes, writing it down helps lighten the load.
    4. Have a comforting drink – Hot chocolate, herbal tea, or your favourite coffee—make it a little ritual.
    5. Step outside for fresh air – Even if it’s just opening a window. Let the outside world remind you it’s still there.
    6. Repeat an affirmation – “I am worthy of love and kindness.” Say it as many times as you need. (Check this post out for some self-love affirmations to go with these calming morning routines).
    7. Eat something nourishing – Think scrambled eggs, toast, or a banana—something easy and satisfying.

    Pro Tip: On low days, it’s not about doing loads. Even the smallest step forward counts as a win.

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    For When You’re Feeling Energised

    On those rare mornings when you wake up ready to conquer the world, you need a routine that matches your vibe. Let’s make the most of it!

    Routine:

    1. Drink water immediately – Start as you mean to go on—hydrated and ready to slay.
    2. Do 10-15 minutes of exercise – A quick workout, yoga, or even a dance party in your kitchen.
    3. Write down your goals for the day – Get clear on what you want to achieve.
    4. Eat a balanced breakfast – Protein, carbs, and healthy fats. You’re fuelling greatness, babe!
    5. Practise mindfulness – A quick meditation or a gratitude journal to keep you grounded.
    6. Tidy your workspace – Clear space = clear mind = total productivity queen.

    Pro Tip: Feeling energised? Use it wisely! Prioritise your goals and channel that energy into something meaningful.

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    For When You’re Feeling Indecisive

    You wake up not knowing how you feel—just meh. This easy morning routine keeps it simple, so you don’t waste energy deciding what to do.

    Routine:

    1. Start with water – Easy, effective, and no thinking required.
    2. Stretch or do a light yoga flow – Move without overthinking it.
    3. Write a brain dump – Get all the random thoughts out of your head and onto paper.
    4. Eat a quick breakfast – Keep it simple: toast, yoghurt, or fruit.
    5. Pick one focus for the day – Decide on one thing and roll with it.

    Pro Tip: When in doubt, keep it minimal. The less you have to think, the more energy you save for the rest of the day.

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    Conclusion

    No matter how you’re feeling when you wake up, there’s a morning routine idea to help you reset and take control.

    Whether you’re burnt out, stressed, low, or energised, the key is to listen to your body and adjust accordingly.

    Building positive daily habits like these can make mornings something you look forward to rather than dread.

    So go on, give one of these calming morning routines a try and see how much calmer, fresher, and more positive your days become.

    You’ve got this, —your mornings (and your life) are about to get a serious upgrade.

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  • Pilates

    Pilates vs Yoga: Which One is Right for You?

    Pilates vs Yoga: Which One is Right for You?

    You’ve mastered a few Pilates poses in the previous post (go you!), and now you’re curious about Pilates vs Yoga. Both boast incredible benefits, and they’ve both got their die-hard fans. But which one is best for you?

    Whether you’re dreaming of a stronger Pilates body or you want to escape the daily stress with yoga, this post will help you figure it out.

    Let’s break down the similarities, differences, and who’s most likely to fall in love with each practice.

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    Similarities Between Pilates and Yoga

    Let’s start with what these two have in common, shall we?

    Mind-Body Connection: Both Pilates and yoga emphasise being present in your movements and breathing. They encourage mindfulness, making each session feel like a mini retreat for your brain.

    Flexibility and Strength: Both practices will have you bending, stretching, and strengthening muscles you didn’t even know existed. Over time, you’ll notice improved posture, better balance, and a more toned body.

    Low-Impact Goodness: If high-impact workouts aren’t your vibe, you’ll love that both are gentle on the joints while delivering results. (Disclaimer: This doesn’t mean it’s easy!)

    Key Differences Between Pilates and Yoga

    Now, let’s talk about what sets them apart:

    Origins

    • Yoga: This ancient practice hails from India and combines physical postures (asanas), breathing techniques, and meditation for a holistic mind-body experience.
    • Pilates: Developed by Joseph Pilates in the 20th century, this practice was designed to improve physical strength, flexibility, and posture—particularly focusing on the core.

    Goals

    • Yoga: Think relaxation, stress relief, and spiritual growth (though many enjoy it purely for the physical benefits).
    • Pilates: All about building core strength, toning muscles, and improving overall mobility.
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    Techniques

    • Yoga: Features static poses and flowing sequences, often accompanied by meditative breathing.
    • Pilates: Uses controlled movements and props like resistance bands or reformers to strengthen and tone.

    Strength vs. Relaxation

    • Yoga leans more towards flexibility and relaxation.
    • Pilates has a stronger focus on core strength and physical conditioning.

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    Who Should Try Pilates?

    Pilates is perfect if you:

    • Want to strengthen your core—Pilates is unbeatable here.
    • Are looking for a low-impact workout that tones and conditions.
    • Need a practice that supports rehabilitation or improves posture.
    • Are drawn to structured, precise movements (and love tracking progress).

    Pro Tip: If you’re keen on transforming your workout, look into wall Pilates exercises, Pilates with weights, or beginner-friendly reformer Pilates.

    Who Should Try Yoga?

    Yoga is a winner if you:

    • Need a practice that reduces stress and improves mental clarity.
    • Are looking to increase flexibility and balance.
    • Want a holistic experience that integrates body, mind, and spirit.
    • Enjoy flowing sequences or the meditative vibes of stillness.

    Pro Tip: Styles like Hatha yoga are great for beginners, while Wall Yoga can be a fun twist to stretch deeply.

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    Ready to take your Pilates journey to the next level? Check out these must-read posts for beginner-friendly workouts, expert tips, and game-changing Pilates advice to help you build strength, improve flexibility, and stay consistent!

    Conclusion

    So, Pilates vs Yoga – which is better? It depends on what you need!

    If you’re after strength, core conditioning, and a low-impact challenge, Pilates is calling your name. But if flexibility, relaxation, and stress relief are your goals, yoga is your best friend.

    Or, better yet, mix and match—both complement each other beautifully.

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    Studies

    Pilates vs yoga: While both enhance flexibility and core strength, Pilates places a stronger emphasis on controlled movement and muscle toning, whereas yoga incorporates relaxation and stress reduction through mindfulness and breath work (Sorosky et al., 2007).

    Pilates improves flexibility, strength, and postural balance, making it ideal for rehabilitation and fitness programs (Parikh & Arora, 2016).

    Yoga offers superior benefits for reducing stress and improving mental clarity through breath control and meditative postures (Sharma, 2015).

    Pilates is highly effective in increasing flexibility, strength, and muscle endurance, which supports better athletic performance and injury prevention (Poletto & Toigo, 2017).

    Pilates and yoga both serve as excellent low-impact exercises, helping with stress reduction, posture improvement, and physical conditioning (Lademann & Lademann, 2019).

  • Wellbeing

    15 Happiness Tips That Will Make Life More Enjoyable

    15 Happiness Tips That Will Make Life More Enjoyable

    Let’s be honest – life can feel like one long slog sometimes. You work hard, you do your best to keep it all together, and yet it feels like you’re missing something. Sound familiar? Here’s the thing: happiness doesn’t just magically drop out of the sky and hit you in the face.

    It’s about finding those little moments, cherishing the little things, and enjoying life as it comes.

    So, buckle up, because I’m about to share 15 mindset shifts that’ll make life more enjoyable. These are your ultimate happiness tips, packed with life-changing habits to help you feel like a genuinely happy person.

    Ready to dive in? Let’s do this!

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    1. Reframe Negative Thoughts

    Stop spiralling into doom every time something goes pear-shaped. That parking ticket? Annoying, yes, but it doesn’t mean the universe hates you.

    Flip the script and think: “Well, at least I’ve got a story to laugh about later over a cuppa!”

    Pro Tip: Catch yourself mid-rant and ask, “Will this matter in a year?” If not, let it go.

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    2. Practise Gratitude Daily

    You’ve probably heard this one a million times, but it works. Every day, jot down three things you’re grateful for.

    It could be your morning coffee, your favourite song, or not tripping over the cat today.

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    3. Set Realistic Expectations

    You can’t do it all, and honestly, you shouldn’t have to.

    Stop trying to be Superwoman.

    Set boundaries and realistic goals, and remember that saying “no” can sometimes be the most liberating thing ever.

    4. Focus on What You Can Control

    Life’s messy. But instead of stressing about things you can’t change (like the weather or that one coworker), focus on what you can.

    Need a mood boost? Tidy your desk, go for a walk, or make a cuppa. Those little things add up.

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    5. Let Go of Perfectionism

    Spoiler: Perfection is a myth. Life is far more fun when you’re winging it and laughing at your mistakes. Be kind to yourself and remember – done is better than perfect!

    6. Celebrate Progress, Not Just Results

    Lost a pound? Got through the day without snapping at anyone? That’s progress, my friend, and it deserves a high five.

    Celebrating small wins is one of the best ways to be happier.

    Dreaming big for 2025? Don’t miss my post on 9 Goals That Belong on Every 2025 Vision Board to inspire your best year yet!

    7. Embrace “Good Enough” Moments

    Your house doesn’t need to look like a Pinterest board, and your life doesn’t need to be Instagram-perfect.

    A clean-ish kitchen and takeaway dinner can be just as joyful.

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    8. Accept That Rest Is Productive

    Resting isn’t being lazy; it’s recharging. If you’re burning the candle at both ends, you’re going to burn out.

    Schedule time to chill, binge your favourite show, or read a book. Trust me, you’ll be more productive after.

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    9. Learn to Forgive (Yourself and Others)

    Carrying grudges is heavy work. Trust me.

    Forgive others, not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace. And while you’re at it, forgive yourself for not being perfect – no one is!

    A great way to practice forgiveness is with meditation! I use the Calm app for this, it’s packed with guided sessions specifically for letting go of grudges and practising self-compassion.

    10. Comparison Is the Thief of Joy

    You’re not her, and she’s not you. Stop scrolling through other people’s highlight reels and start living your own life.

    Want to know how to be a happy person? Ditch the comparisons and focus on what makes you smile.

    Looking to transform your life? Check out my post on Life-Changing Habits to Get Your Life Together and start making big changes today!

    11. Practise Saying “No”

    Every “yes” to something you hate is a “no” to something you love. Protect your time and energy like a dragon guards its treasure.

    12. Seek Small Adventures

    You don’t need to book a month-long trip to Bali to feel alive. Try a new café, take a different route home, or say yes to that random karaoke night.

    Those little moments can be life-changing.

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    13. Be Kind to Yourself

    Would you talk to your best friend the way you talk to yourself? No? Then cut the self-criticism and give yourself the same compassion you’d give them.

    14. Focus on Creating Memories

    Stuff is just stuff, but memories? They last forever.

    Plan a day out, play silly games with the kids, or have a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen. Those life habits bring joy.

    Ready to take action? Check out my 30-Day Life Reset Challenge—the perfect way to refresh your routines and boost your happiness!

    15. Remember That Joy is in the Journey

    There’s no magic destination where happiness lives. It’s in the here and now, in those moments you take to breathe, laugh, and just be.

    Final Thoughts

    Life’s meant to be messy, imperfect, and full of surprises. The key is enjoying it for what it is – a patchwork of happy little things and moments where you feel truly alive.

    So, pick one of these mindset shifts, run with it and let me know in the comments how you did. You’ve got this – and I’ll be cheering you on every step of the way!

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  • Personal Development

    30-Day Life Reset Challenge: Transform Your Life with the IAGAM Framework

    Life Reset Challenge

    Feeling stuck? Like life’s a never-ending cycle of wake, work, eat, and doom-scroll? Well, friend, it’s time for a Life Reset Challenge.

    In just 30 days, we’re going to use my IAGAM framework (Identity, Action, Growth, Achievement, Mindset) to turn things around.

    This is your chance to ditch the rut, shake up your habits, and glow up—inside and out.

    Ready? Let’s dive into the 30 Day Life Reset that’s going to have you asking, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”

    Table of Contents

    How It Works

    This isn’t just a random list of things to do—it’s a plan. You’ll follow five phases, with six days for each.

    Each phase builds on the last, so by the end of the 30 Day Challenge To Change Your Life, you’ll have transformed not just your habits but your whole outlook.

    About the Upcoming Ebook: IAGAM Framework

    This ebook is all about helping you create lasting change in your life—whether it’s improving your health, building better habits, or transforming your mindset. Based on the methods I used to lose 80lbs and completely reset my life, the IAGAM framework breaks down the journey into five clear, actionable phases:

    1. Identity: Change starts from the inside out. This phase focuses on redefining who you are and aligning your habits with the person you want to become.
    2. Action: Small, intentional actions create big results. Here, you’ll learn how to build consistent habits that reflect your new identity.
    3. Growth: Growth happens outside your comfort zone. This phase is about stepping into challenges, overcoming limiting beliefs, and learning from the process.
    4. Achievement: Celebrate your wins! In this phase, you’ll focus on recognising progress, setting measurable goals, and maintaining momentum.
    5. Mindset: Your mindset is your foundation. This phase helps you solidify a positive, growth-focused mindset to sustain your progress long-term.

    The ebook guides you through each phase with practical strategies, examples, and actionable tips to help you reset your life and achieve your goals with confidence and joy.

    It’s not just a guide—it’s a roadmap to becoming the best version of yourself.

    Sign up to the newsletter for updates on this eBook’s release, and for exclusive discount codes!

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    Phase 1: Identity Reset (Days 1–6)

    To change your life, you’ve got to change how you see yourself.

    This week is all about defining the person you want to become.

    1. Day 1: Write down your “current you” and “ideal you.” Be brutally honest (and a little dreamy).
    2. Day 2: Create an affirmation that aligns with your ideal identity. Say it out loud every morning.
    3. Day 3: Write down your biggest limiting belief and replace it with an empowering one.
    4. Day 4: Declutter one space in your home to create a clean slate.
    5. Day 5: Create a vision board (Pinterest counts) that reflects the life you want.
    6. Day 6: Do one thing today that your ideal self would do—dress up, meal prep, or take a morning walk.
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    Phase 2: Action Reset (Days 7–12)

    Dreams don’t work unless you do, so this week is all about taking small, intentional actions.

    1. Day 7: Commit to drinking at least 2 litres of water a day—hydrate that glow-up!
    2. Day 8: Move your body for 15 minutes. Walk, dance, or stretch—just get moving.
    3. Day 9: Swap one unhealthy snack for something nourishing. Think fruit, nuts, or yoghurt.
    4. Day 10: Write down 3 simple goals for this week and break them into bite-sized steps.
    5. Day 11: Plan your meals for the next 3 days. (Bonus: Try a recipe you’ve never made before.)
    6. Day 12: Unplug from social media for the day. Use the extra time for self-care.

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    Phase 3: Growth Reset (Days 13–18)

    It’s time to stretch yourself—try new things, face fears, and grow into your new identity.

    1. Day 13: Try a new workout or fitness challenge (hello, 7 Day Fitness Challenge Ideas).
    2. Day 14: Start a journal and write about your biggest goal and why it matters to you.
    3. Day 15: Learn something new—watch a tutorial, read a book, or try a new skill.
    4. Day 16: Do something that scares you a little. Call that friend, book that class, or say no to something draining.
    5. Day 17: Spend an hour decluttering your digital life—emails, apps, and photos.
    6. Day 18: Reflect on the past two weeks: What’s working? What can you tweak?

    Phase 4: Achievement Focus (Days 19–24)

    You’re making moves now! This phase is about celebrating your progress and setting yourself up for even bigger wins.

    1. Day 19: Write down three things you’ve achieved so far (no matter how small). Celebrate them!
    2. Day 20: Set a mini goal for the week, like completing a 30 Day Beginner stretch routine.
    3. Day 21: Treat yourself to something that makes you feel good—flowers, a bath, or a new book.
    4. Day 22: Spend 15 minutes visualising your success. Where will you be in six months? A year?
    5. Day 23: Share your progress with someone who’ll cheer you on. Accountability works wonders.
    6. Day 24: Create a “wins” list to remind yourself of what you’ve accomplished and what’s next.
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    Phase 5: Mindset Reset (Days 25–30)

    Your mindset is your superpower. Let’s solidify it so you can keep thriving long after this challenge ends.

    1. Day 25: Write down 3 things you’re grateful for today. Gratitude shifts your perspective.
    2. Day 26: Create a “maintenance plan” for your new habits. How will you keep these changes going?
    3. Day 27: Do something kind for someone else. Helping others boosts your own happiness.
    4. Day 28: Reflect on the biggest lesson you’ve learned during this challenge.
    5. Day 29: Plan your next challenge—maybe a 90 Day Workout Challenge or New Year Glow Up Challenge.
    6. Day 30: Celebrate yourself! Treat yourself to a Glow Up Weekend or write a letter to future you about how far you’ve come.

    Why This Challenge Works

    This isn’t just another 30 Day Challenge Lifestyle idea—it’s a full-on 2025 Life Reset. By following these 30 tasks, you’re not just building habits; you’re creating a new version of yourself.

    You’ll feel stronger, more confident, and ready to take on the world (or at least your inbox).

    If you’ve enjoyed my posts and want to help me out, feel free to leave a tip.

    It’s greatly appreciated and helps me keep delivering helpful, motivational (and free!) content.

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    Conclusion

    The 30-Day Life Reset Challenge isn’t just another checklist of things to tick off—it’s a chance to completely transform how you live, think, and feel.

    By following the IAGAM framework, you’ll not only build better habits, but you’ll also step into a stronger, more confident version of yourself.

    In just 30 days, you’ll go from feeling stuck and overwhelmed to energised, focused, and proud of what you’ve accomplished. As you redefine your identity, you’ll notice how even small daily actions can create a ripple effect throughout your life.

    Plus, celebrating your hard-earned wins will keep you motivated to push forward.

    Struggling to stay organised while juggling all the changes? The GYST Binder: Your Ultimate Tool for Organising Your Life is exactly what you need to keep everything in check and make this reset seamless.

    So, why wait any longer? Your glow-up doesn’t have to be a “someday” dream. Instead, take the first step today.

    With each phase, you’ll build momentum, and before you know it, you’ll look back and wonder why you didn’t start sooner. Let’s smash this together—you’ve got this!

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